love...

[Chicker]

I had a relationship with my classmate in high school and it is called M.U. (or Mutual Understanding). Going to college, we enrolled in different schools and this made us not see each other very often. Even though we are apart, our relationship continued well until I met a girl from the university where I am in who has some of the characteristics that I liked in my M.U. Of course, I see this girl more often than my M.U. and it seems like I'm falling in love with her. Actually, I am not quite sure whether I am really in love with her or I only miss my M.U. which looks like her. Telling this to my M.U. put an end to our relationship (because "mutual understanding" means both of you has the same feelings toward each other and that feeling should be "love"). I really like this girl from school but I am not sure whether it is really love. Because of this, I can't tell this girl that I love her aside from the fact that I am afraid what happened to my previous relationship will happen again. Please help me...

[Joey]

I don't really get what you mean by M.U. Is she your girlfriend or just a close friend?

Why not you get to know the new girl better and see who you really love? Even if you like the new girl, she may or may not reciprocate your feelings. You need to give it a try and you need to decide.

[wicked]

I get your point....weLL i think the best possibLe way to determine if what you feel for this new girL is really love or just due to the fact that you see your MU in her is to try to separate yourself from her for a while. see who you miss more or better yet try thinking who of the two could you stand losing given that you can only have one of them. If you find the answers to these then most probably you'd know what to do with this new girl.

Hope this helped......:)