Girls How would i KNow

[PeterParker]

Ok heres an even better question. Im in college. I dont really get a chance to talk to the girls in my class. Now how would i know that they like me. What would be some body language? What would be some signs that a girl in class would be intrested?

[Kaisharga]

OK, let me translate your post, and then i can answer what you're really looking for.

Original:
Ok heres an even better question. Im in college. I dont really get a chance to talk to the girls in my class. Now how would i know that they like me. What would be some body language? What would be some signs that a girl in class would be intrested?

Translation:
I'm in college, and people don't really meet eachother in that kind of place. So I'm having trouble 'meeting' and getting to know girls. This one girl on one class in specific. I like her, and I'm not sure if she likes me and just doesn't want to show it. She does this and this and that, does that mean she's interested?

That about accurate? Good. Let's move on.

One funny thing about college is the excellent range of freedom it provides--however, everyone insists that this freedom remain constant; thus, people tend to stay mental distances from eachother quite often. Enough explaining, on with the problem at hand.

So you want to take someone out on a date, but aren't sure if they're interested. What's the best way to find out? ASK!!!!
Ask the one(s?) you have the hots for out on a date, out to go to a club, to have lunch, if you can walk with her for a while to compare notes, or whatever. Close some of that distance, and make your presence and interest known. The former moreso than the latter. Everything will typically work its own way out from there.

Gotta take those first small steps before you can do leaps and bounds in relationships, yo.

--Kaisharga, who should probably have a 'go gradually' rant on the Paste function permanently

[gonzolaguna]

Ok Kaisharga heres a problem im having with a girl that i really like.

History: she works with me and i found out that she likes me. We have hung out several times and all those times we have had great conversations and we have clearly stated that we like eachother and that we have so much in common. she has been what i have been looking for. And i did all the right things, i know cause she told someone and they told me. she broke up with her boyfriend at least three weeks ago. She recently told me that she doesnt want a boyfriend right now and that she needs a little time before we should go out that way she is certain that i am not the rebound guy. i wish i could describe to you the effect that i have on her but you would have to see it.

Present: my delema is that i dont know what i should do to give her space and yet keep her interested and not smuther her. And when will i know when she is ready to date me?

Im sorry if i used this topic in the wrong way but i need your help

[Kaisharga]

One easy way to keep distance without losing track with her is to be her friend. Just hang out with her, do friend-like things, and lay low on the date-type stuff. Save romantic dinners for later, all that. Get together with other friends of yours (both of you). Do whatever it is that you do with friends, with her.

As for when she will be ready to take the next step and make it a two-person-closeness relationship (ooh, way to go eloquence), nobody can say for sure. You'll just have to wait and bear with her until she's confident enough that her feelings are true. There's not a lot that you can do to speed this up, nor anything that you should do. Let her control the pace for this, because it's her that's the uncertain one. I'm sure that will change soon enough, though, if what you say is valid. :D

--Kaisharga

[babymother]

I'ma be real with you,you may never know because women have a odd way of showing a man that they are interested in them.like we may like you and at the same time we may act like we can't stand you. the only way you'll know is if you go for what you want.so go get your girl .good luck

[Kaisharga]

I have but one question about that.

WHY?!?!?!?!?

--Kaisharga

[gonzolaguna]

ok well like u said i should hang out with her and become her friend but that is kind of hard to do when she wont return my calls. to tell u the truth i think im just going to let things ride and if she wants to persue me then im cool with that but if she wants to stay single then thats cool to im not going to loose sleep over it. Maybe it wasnt ment to be and thats it. Thank you for your help.:cool:

[babymother]

because if she's a self respecting female like myself and you like the guy you don't want him to look at you in a bad way. as like all you want is sex or you don't want him to treat you that way because you were the one to tap on that subject.