Im losing Intrest

[PeterParker]

I'm a cute guy that has had problems getting with girls. Older girls think im the greatest thing in the world and dont know why i havent meet anybody while younger girls think im a real stud. Know when im talking old i mean 25 and older and young i mean 16 and down. I dont understand why the range where im at act like there not intrested in me. The truth of the matter now is im starting to lose intrest in girls period. Im not into guys. im just not into girls anymore. They dont turn me on as much anymore. I dont even try stuff with them anymore.... i dont understand whats going on? HOw come..i mean i dont even try to flirt anymore.

[Defenstra]

whenever that that happened/happens to me. my buddies usually try to set me up with a girl or take me out to a bar/party/club and force me to "hit on" a girl before we left. maybe you should talk to your male friends about your situation. (female friends tend to just give words of encouragement and not actually do anything for me.) even if you don't like the girl you're set up with or if you don't really care about the girl at the party, at the very least, the little excersize gives you more courage and more exposure. if you're lucky, maybe people will see that you're at least still "in the game". and if you're even luckier girls may even will start approaching you.

eh. practice makes perfect i guess....:D

Def

[Kaisharga]

I'd say that you really shouldn't worry about the whole getting-into-a-relationship thing. That's something that needs to happen, rather than something you need to do.

On with the actual answer, tho.

What I'd recommend is when you're at these parties/bars/whatever, see if you can just strike up a conversation with someone (of the female persuasion). Whatever you like to talk about, see if she likes something even moderately similar. Make sure it's intelligent conversation, and sports stats doesn't count. I'd use philosophical banter, but that's just me. Anyway, the key thing here is just to find someone to be a friend. And friendship should probably be more important to you right now. (Rant tie-in: Friendships lead to the best relationships.)

Bottom line, though, is to be yourself--the key is getting people to see 'you.'

--Kaisharga