HELP! Loosing Interest?

[sweetie87]

Theres this guy that ive been involved with for a couple of weeks (we arent dating at all yet) and the only time we get to see each other is at school I dont even see him much there, (I could go to his house but Id have to walk and its kinda far and he has a big family, as do i so were never home alone, ive went there once) anyways, we also talk on the phone every day except the weekends and hes not online much so I cant really talk to him on there but he hasnt really been talking to me much lately, I havent talked to him in like.. 3 or 4 days, just once but for like 5 minutes. I mean hes not like flirty like he used to be and such. What should I do to get his interest back??? Any suggestions???

[Karma]

Have you tried telling him exactly how you feel? You sound kinda young, but you'll learn as you get older that the only way to make a relationship succeed -- or even start -- is by having honest, open discussions about how you feel. Good Luck.

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[Pandora1980]

If you really like him- why don't you just suck it up and walk to his house? If you really want to be alone with him- go for a walk or something. When I was in highschool- my boyfriend and I obviously both lived at home and we didn't want to hang out at either house too much. We'd go to the mall, go for walks in the woods, sit and talk for hours there.
If you think he's losing interest- walk to his house, if he's not busy- ask him to go for a walk with you- you should be able to tell whether he's lost interest or still digs you.
I don't know what kind of area you live in- but my highschool boyfriend and I used to take the bus and the subway and meet downtown to do things together too. If you can walk to a restaurant from one of your houses, go out for coffee or something- be creative with what you have.
Sometimes when your options are limited, and you need to be creative- you have more fun than if you could go anywhere.

[mjstokes85]

Hey i was just looking back through old posts on here and found this. I was wondering how did this story end? Did you and this guy get together in the end? Please tell us if you can, im interested to know :)