I like one of my best friends!!

[crazy chica]

Help Me!
:bawling:

I have a friend. He's just like a brother to me. I can tell him anything. But lately, I've been having feelings for him. Strong feelings. My friends say if I tell him, it's going to mess up our friendship. But I really wanna tell him. Sometimes I get signs that he likes me too. But I'm not sure if they're signs of friendship or more. What should I do? Help me. Time is running out!!!:confused::confused:

[Kaisharga]

Well my advice is just to continue treating him the way you do. If you want to get closer, invite him over to your place to hang out for a while. See a movie together. The things that dating people do, but you're just friends, of course. :devil:

If he's got a brain in his head, he'll pick up on it, and either be freaked out (i'd say this is about 5% likely), or go with it and continue developing a closer relationship with you (about 95% likely). The latter being wayyy more likely because you two already have a good solid relationship going, you're just taking it in a slightly different angle. Good luck!

--Kaisharga
"Happiness is being married to your best friend."
--old adage

[xiaomoon]

since you can tell him everything, you can try asking him this qns:" Do you think we can enaged in a futher relationship than now?(meaning can we be more than friends)
See how he replies and reply to mi asap!~:rolleyes:
Most relatipnships starts with friensdships first so there's highly chance that you two can be together.

[crazy chica]

:cool: :) :cool: Much luv to xiaomoon and Kaisharga. I did what the both of you said about getting closer and having more time alone. I think it's working. I always catch him looking at me. he thinks I don't see him but I do. He's always finding a reason to call me or brush his arm against mine. We used to take the bus home together, but recently we started walking home just so we could have more time together. If it wasn't for the two of you I would not have gotten this far. So thanx!!:) Oh and if anyting juicy happens I'll be sure to let you guys know!!! Thanx again!! :)