I wanna win her back into my life.

[xtreme]

Me and my girl have been together. All along I tot everything is going on fine. Then recently she told me that she has this huge crush on a gal from her workplace. I was devastated and was angry at her. I was wondering what went wrong with our relationship. She told me that she needs time to short things out and we got into a huge argument. I said hurting words (I really regretted that i said those words to her) and she told me that she dun wanna to talk to me anymore. she is still mad at me cause she never responds to my calls and e-mails. i dun know what i can do to win her back into my life. if you ppl can give me advises and ideas, thanks.
zach

[Aprilsky]

why don't you try the old fashion way and write her a letter, tell her that you are sorry for the hurtful things you said, and you were just hurt at the time you said them. Then explain to her exactly how you truly feel about her, I dunno, that might win her back, if not, hopefully you can still be friends. Well thats my advice!
April

PS, don't forget to send her flowers too (works on me) :flower:

[Kaisharga]

The best thing to arrange, imho, is a metting with her to discuss it like adults. Apologize, but not so much that you bore her wth your falling-on-your-knees-and-kissing-her-feet all the time. If there's a way to arrange this kind of hting, be rational, be calm, and most importantly (and everyone here knows i say this often) LISTEN to what she has to say. Listen. Listen. LISTEN!! Okay, i think that's enough repeating that. If you explain your side, and listen to her side, and then things will most likely be better. Good luck.

--Kaisharga