Why?

[ska32198]

I have just a quick question that i would like anyone to answer my boss who is stuck in a dead end job... im just doing it for pocket money can go out any where any time and get the most beautiful girl you have ever seen and sleep with her the same day every time with no prospects,car or much money whereas i will take forever to get some one to go out w/ me (im not that bad looking) ill take them anywhere they want to go ill buy them anything they want and i still get cheated on, a crazy person or "lets just be friends" why is that?

[Kaisharga]

It might be the way you treat these people. Money doesn't make or buy love, you have to be a good friend to the person as well in order to establish a long-term relationship. Listen to what they have to say, really appreciate their feelings, think of them as a person, rather than an object or just 'a chance to score.' You've gotta be interested in the person, not the crotch. If you're doing all this, maybe she's just not right for you and vice versa. A lot of people take a good many dates before they can find a true love. And since i don't see you ranting about how wonderful your chosen mate is, i don't think you've found yours.

As for your boss (i guess? it's hard to tell what you're writing down there without any punctuation), I'd say that he probably is just in it for the nookie. Walk up to a girl, chat for five minutes, and then ask if she wants to scr00. nuff said. Of course, he doesn't have to worry about being cheated on, because he really doesn't give a crap about these women. You can be better than that. Please do.

--Kaisharga