Sub-concious Flirting

[Wandering Mind]

Just a question that has been on my mind for awhile, and I'm curious what other people think, and I figured this was a good place to ask it.

Is it possible to sub-conciously flirt, and if so, how do you figure out that you are?

[Moo Moo]

I think its related to the way you speak and your body language with the other person.

[Kaisharga]

Yes, it is possible to flirt without really fully realizing that you are doing so. I know someone who does it all the time :-o

The easiest way to learn whether you are or not, is just by listening to yourself, and watching yourself. Would you call those things flirting were someone else doing them?

Actually, just paying close attention to your own actions is a very Zen thing. Do it often, you'll appreciate yourself for it.

--Kaisharga

[jidk]

Sub-conscious flirting is our natural way of communicate without verbally saying anything. If you care for someone you are going to flirt in every way possible. One will alter the way he acts often intenionally but also that person will act differently and not even be aware of himself. It depends on the two that are communicating. We often mirror the other persons physical movements and not be conscious of it at all. Check youiself the next time you meet someone that impresses you.
The smile is probalely the most used sub-consious flirting. However smiling has come naturally for it to happen, but a smile sends so much positive energy and says so much. It is our most powerful sub-concious flirt we have.

Jake