mike316
09-06-2001, 04:23 PM
i asked a girl from work out on a date. i kenw her for a while before i asked her. when i asked her out she said we could go out sometime.:D i gave her my phone number because she has a kid and doesn't have as much free time as i do. i wouldn't want to call over to her house and interupt family time with her kid,you know? well a few days later she called my house and we talked to each other for about a half in hour. i called her back a few days later and she said she was going to get a sitter so the both of us could go out. i have to sdmit i was really excitied about the whole thing. well on that saturday i went to the bar with a couple of buddies and there she was with another guy. i did say hi to her but i thought no big deal we can still be friends. well the two years she went out with this guy she wouldn't even look at me. i wolud walk by her and she wouldn't even look at me. she knows that i wouldn't get mad at her because she went out with another guy. that was then this past fourth of july i was at the bar talking to my friend ken, low and behold her she comes with her girlfriend struting into the bar. well i thought no big deal i'll just play it cool and proceeded to talk to my friend ben. well about a half hour later i see her coming up by me at the bar. she gives me a elbow and says holy !@#$ how are you. this is came as a shock because she hadn't said two words to me in almost two years. well i started to talk to her and she started to tell my buddy ben how . nice i'am. i said her. she then shows me pictures of her kid and she says she just bought a house. and i said congradulations and how cute her kid is. then out of nowhere she asks if they play a slow song will i dance with her. i said sure. said she beter go and sit by her friends and she said i'll talk to you later. well i started to talk to my friend ben for a while. it wasn't more than 5 min. and she starts to wave me to sit by her and her friends. so i moved to sit right next ot her. she introduces me to all her friends. i over heard one of her friends say how cute i'am and she respondes by saying i know with a big smile. then she puts her hand on my bicep and starts to caress it. this happened on and off with her hand i would say at least 5 times. we sat and talked to each other for a while when a slow song started and she goes come it's our song. so we danced,talked, and laughed. when the song was over we went to sit down and i wasn't saying to much and she puts her hand on my bicep and says whats the matter i said nothing's wrong. then her girlfriend says she wants to go then th girl i like said lets have one more and stay for a while. but they wound up leaving as she left she rubs my back and says you can stop over anytime you are always welcome company. and says i'll talk to you monday. now i know you people are thinking whats the matter here. this is were it all semms to fall apart. that monday i walked past her like three times and she walked not even looking at me with her head looking at the ground. so i thought if she wants to be like that well fine so i did the same thing she did to me. now she was really looking at me staring,gwaking, she couldn't take her eys off me. but when i would look at her to say hi she would advert her eyes. well one weekend i was at the grocery store when out of no were she say hi with a huge smile i sadi hi how are you she said how are you i said fine and that was that. so the monday we returned to work i said hi to her a few times she sadi hi but the look on her face was like don't say hi to me when there's people around i know. well i thought matbe she had a bad day. so the next day i was going to say hi to her i know she seen me but she moves her eyes away from me. it's like inside of work i'm a dork. outside of work i'm the man. now some peolpe have said ask for her phone number but the way she acts at work i'm really to scared. should i suck up to her and just be nice. or is she playing with my emotions. do you people think she is intrested in me.