I just don't know what to do...

[cybrsweetie]

I was with this guy for 8 months, and everything seemed like it was going well. We trusted each other, and it felt like we loved each other. One day he decided to tell me that he don't want a long relationship, the day before our 8 month anniversary. I asked him if he loved me, if he ever did. He told me that he did, but he don't know if he does anymore. His friends told me that he said that I was a mistake to go out with for so long, and when I confronted him about it, he said he only said it because he heard that I said that he was a waste of my time. Which is not true, I love him, and would still do anything for him. His friends also told me that he called me a bitch, said I talked to much and that I was annoying. Now... he won't even talk to me on the net. he has everything blocked (yahoo, msn, etc) and he won't reply to my emails. Ive stopped emailing him because it hurts so much for him NOT to reply. When I did email him, it wouldn't even be about "us", it would be like "friends stuff" but he refuses to be friends even, and I don't know what to do without him. I have no self esteem, I want to have his love. It's been 2 months and I still can't get interested in a guy, it's hard to even talk to my guy friends. He recently told my best friend that he would consider being friends and doing just friends stuff with me, but he said CONSIDER and I want to be friends. If I can't have his love, I want his friendship. It's really hard because this summer I lost my mother and grandmother in the same month, and he was so there for me through everything, and now I can't even look at him. It's really hard because we work together and he won't even look at me and he's always flirting with other girls in front of me. How can I get him to be friends with me again... or even get him back. Alot of my friends think that he's scared of a commitment, because hes the type that hasn't ever had a serious relationship before. I was the longest person he'd ever went out with!

[xiaomoon]

hmm.. now you want to have long-term relationships, so i think he's not suitable for you. Maybe he's those type of guys who cant have long-term relationships with any girl- well, maybe he will get bored after the relationship lasted for some time or he just has to change his taste every few months!:dodgy:

He's not worthy of you to love him i think he just play with people's feelings!
He's now trying all cost to avoid you which means he doesnt likes you anymore.
I really hate guys who flirt with other girls in front of me especially when it's your guy!:mad: :splat:

Alrite, there isnt just one guy in the world right? :confused:
I'm sure there're more better guys than him out there!!
You gonna open your eyes wide though..:eek2:

Hope you find your prince charming soon! :wavey:

[cybrsweetie]

All my friends have told me that he don't deserve me, but it's not easy to get over someone that fast. I keep telling my self all these things that make me get over him, but there's those times that I start thinking about him, something will bring up a good memory, and I'll feel down again.

I can't even find a guy that interests me. I don't like being alone. My ex made me the happiest I'd ever been. I thought that he really cared about me, than come to find out, I felt used and played. It would have been easier if he cheated on me, than I'd have a reason to get over him, but I don't. He didn't do anything to me but hurt me, and play me and etc. My friends use to always tell me that I look/act so happy, and that he's the right one. My mom, when she was in the hospital dying, told him to take care of me, and he promised her that he would, and than 3 hours later she died. He didn't live to that promise and it hurts! My mom use to say he's the right one.

I just don't know how to get over him, I want it to happen quickly, but I know it takes time, but I can't stop thinking about him, wishing he was here... or there with me, kissing me... I MISS EVERYTHING! :'(

[Aprilsky]

I know you're hurting but mabe this is just a turning point for you, there might be someone else out there for you, someone better who will appreciate you.
If it's meant to be he will come around, just try and give him space and he will wake up and realize what he's done. And by that time you may have found someone new and you won't need him anymore. All things happen for a reason, and you will come out stronger when everything is all said and done.
April

PS. I'm sorry to hear about your mother, I dont' know what I would do without mine.:clown

[xiaomoon]

I have an idea here hope it helps!:D

Well first you gonna forget him by engaging in activities. Like going out with your friends, going to parties etc.! You musnt let yourself have any second free to think of him. Then after sometime you can get over him without any effort! * the key thing is you must keep yourself occupied *

Now, you are on your way to success!:cheer: