should i ? should i not ?

[dreamz]

well everythings like this ......... EG is my ex. we just broke up in the beginning of this year and our relationship had lasted for only 7 months. although it had been 9 months since then , until now i still cant forget him. he used to like me 3 years ago but i rejected him cos i had a boyfriend then. he had a reputation of being a skirt chaser and he is so good looking that almost all the girls had a crush on him be4. but despite all these he told me he loved me and im the 1st girl that he said that too, and all his friends said he loved me the most among all his girlfriends. Anyway thats all the things in the past, he had a new girlfriend now and im still deeply in love with him.
:rolleyes:
we havent been talking since the break up....should i call him to talk and tell him my feelings? should i wait for him? or just totally 4get bout him? i cant seem to do that though.....what shu i do?
can some kind souls gimme some advice?:bawling::confused:

[xiaomoon]

well if you still like him and then i think you should first call him then ask if he still has feelings for you;)
You'll be surprise if he still has feelings for you!:eek2:
If he still has then i think you should go for it!:)
tell him that you still have feelings for him
And maybe find out if he likes his current girlfriend or you more
If he likes the current girlfriend more than you i think you should give it up then..
Try to relate your conversations to the past, say how happy you two were when you and him are together.. etc.

[maryellen]

Some times our emotional investments just don't pay off the way we want them to. Since you know how you feel, find out how he feels about you, and go from there. You must move forward with out him if in fact he says no. Often times, this take more courage than we feel we have. Hang in there, things really will get better.
Mary Ellen:lips:

[babymother]

i say if you love him that much you should let him be happy . because if you do call him and he says just the opostie of what you want to hear and you'll be even more hurt so just take this time to try and move on because only god amd time knows what will happen between you and him. and you come to find out even though you love him things just might not be the way you want them to be if you fource a realationship on him at this present time while he has a girlfriend and you have to think about her feelings as well because you would not want a girl pouring her heart out to him if you were still togehter. so just chill out and remember good things come to those who wait. :) ;) :)

[beltfed]

Your'e hanging on by a thread. Don't let that thread break. Call him and let it pour. It's your'e only hope. Don't keep it bottled up inside like I did. It cost alot of money to replace those holes in my bedroom wall....