Does he care?

[xiaomoon]

ok, I'm now having some problems with my current relationship..
Well this week I'm having my exams and the problem started about a week or two ago.. he seldoms calls me unless i call him
and now is my examination week and then he didnt even ask how's the paper I've taken. when i ask him why he dinnt call me he says he dinnt want to disturb me. But this week is the examination period cant he just show some surpport by calling me and encouraging me?
One more thing is that i really cant stand him breaking his promise. There's been a few times when i call him then he's with his friends then he would say he'll call me back. But after waiting for the WHOLE day there's no news of him.
Sometimes i just feel that he doesnt care for me at all..:bawling:

[dreamz]

well .... actually i had been in the same position like yours.
and in the end i did real bad for my exams ....
so 1st thing i wanna say is study for your exams 1st although i know its a real pain.
well.... maybe like what he had said he just didnt wan to disturb you and let you concentrate.maybe its hard for him too not to talk to u? as for returning your calls... maybe u will just like to ask him directly? im sure he will give u his reasons and at the same time u can ask him to reassure u not to break his promises again.

dun think too much....... good luck 2 ;)

[xiaomoon]

thanxs for your advice! It really helps alot.. but I still have doubts about these problems...:(
By the way, welcome to acmelove!;)

[Kaisharga]

Well, I'd say that my answer kinda depends on how...well...aloof he is.

I know that I love my gf with all my heart (insert other mushy stuff here), but on occasion I just get distracted. I have a lot of things going on for me, and I always have to organize EVERYTHING between my friends, my gf, my family, my work, and all are highly variable. Occasionally one gets lost in the shuffle, and those times where he forgets his promises may be something like that. I wouldn't think too much about it, he probably does still care for you.

As for the exams, i agree with Dreamz--study first, BF later. So he didn't call you. That doesn't change your exam times. If you really REALLY need to call him then find a way to get to him, even get a definite time down where YOU can call HIM. That may help you get some peace of mind so you can keep studying/cramming/whatever. I reiterate: Classwork is more important.

--Kaisharga, who thinks he probably sounded a little harsher than he wanted to

[Amythestqueen1]

I have also been in the same situation, and I have to agree with the advice you recieved earleir, study, and try to keep him off of your mind as long as you are in your classes and during your study time, because if you don't your worry is going to take it's toll on you and on your grades. After your test then try to talk tohim about it. Sometimes when gus are with their friends, they aren't intuned to your sensitivity about when they call and when they don't. I'm still working on that call thing, he'll tell me he'll call back later and I don't here from him until the next day, or whenever I decide to call. But when I flipped the script and I didn't call then he thought something was wrong, and thought I was mad at him, so keep your head in the books, this is only a week that you have to go through. things will work out in the end. I hope you get some help out of what I wrote.

[Joshua]

i guess you boyfriend just didnt want to distract you from your studies and wanted you to scored good marks...if he called you...you will have him stucked on your mind and you wont be able to concentrate. sg exams are tough...:P

[garvald]

absence makes the heart grow fonder...so dont call him for a while and if hes really interested in you , hell call u back