Big problem with Girl at work...

[JackJ]

Well, this is my first post and I am needing some major advice. For starters I have no female friends at all apart from relations and I tend to freeze when around the oposite sex. There is a girl at work who I find extremely attractive, she doesn't work on my department though so I would have to go out of my way to contact her. Basically I don't know anything about her and I want to because she is different than anybody that I have ever met.

Please can I have any advice on how to go about initial contact and how to let her know that I am interested. The department which she works on makes it impossible for indepth communication while working and I see her infrequently due to flexi contracts.

Please Help.

[beltfed]

First off, JackJ, loosen up. I used to freeze around girls to, but then I realized that they were human beings, just like guys, try to start off by bringing up a casual conversation.

Second, don't start bombing her with things like "Hello you gorgeous thing!", just give little hints. Smile, wave, say hi and whatnot.

Third: By doing this, you two can easily click, thats when you take it one step further.
after all this, if your confused on what to do next, just come back, there are plenty of people here to give advice.

[JackJ]

I'll let you know how it goes but i'm not in work again until tomorrow, but thanks for the help and advice.