I Love her more than my life

[sailor7]

There is this gril whom i have been in Love with for the past 5 years. She used to live close to my house but left 3 years back. I had not been in contact with her for the last 3 years untill a month back when i got an e-mail from her. I have not stopped liking her since then.
She is a part of my existence, part of myself. She has been in every dream I have dreamt, since I first met her, the boy whose poor heart she wounded even then when she left me. She have been in every prospect I have ever seen since – in the clouds, in the light, in the darkness, in the wind, in the sea, in the streets. She has been the embodiment of every graceful fancy that my mind has ever become acquainted with. The stones of which the strongest buildings are made, are not more real, or more impossible to be displaced by her hands, than her presence and influence have been to me, there and everywhere, and will be. She to the last hour of my life, cannot choose but remain part of my character, part of the little good in me, part of the evil.
We have met just twice in these three years in this past month. I have told her many times that i like her a lot. I keep sending her SMS messages on her Cell phone to tell her how much i love her. But in our last meeting she told me that she is not comfortable with the idea of having a boy-friend at this moment. Please tell me what should i do. Should i pester her with love e-mails and force her to love me or should i let her go."To love means to let go"
I can not imagine my life without her. Though we have never been involved in a serious affair yet i love her a lot.Please tell me what should i do.

Sailor7:bawling:

[NikitaSA]

The words you have written here are beautiful. Are they your own or have you quoted?

As for what you should do....im going to be honest...the worst thing you can do is smother someone. Sometimes, when you come on to strongly, you can frighten her away for good. By now, she knows how you feel, i would suggest you slow down and allow it to sink in....you can still stay in contact with her obviously, but maybe its time to start letting her wonder.....If she is feeling smothered, she will run like crazy...but, if she has any feelings for you, she will loose the security she has of your feelings, and she will soon enough come around.

[xiaomoon]

well this things need time.
Pls dun ever think of forcing her to liking you!:looko:
Well, since she said that she has not prepared for any relationships now, then if you really like her, you should respect her decision. At least she didnt say that she doesnt likes you and this means you still have chance!
Only now you need to wait for the chance to come. Be patient!
Maybe you could show more care for her. Show her that you are a great guy to be out with!;)

[iyiep]

:eek2: for one thing~~ if u cannot be her boyfriend, juz b friends with her~~ so that u can ease her to u, when she feel more comfortable with u ~ u will find that maybe that she would be more open to the real U... another thing tat u want to noe is that is it possible that she may not like u but is too scare totell u as u are really ssmothering her? girls like concern BF but not POSSESIVE one~ maybe ease ur way to her heart by starting as friends that way u can noe her even better and she oso can noe wat a great guy u r;)