2 years!!

[HopeLess20]

Ok, In 2 years my boy frined is coming down from IL. He says he wants me to be his first! But then I don't think he can wait until he comes down. I have had sex before and he is scared of haveing sex with me bcuz I had it before.He thinks that i will not like his sex But then he tells me I don't think so that if I am not good your will break up with me!! How do I tell or show him that sex doesn't matter to me?!?!?:confused:

[katty]

Hi.

This sounds really serious. Not having sex or not having good sex, doesn't mean breaking up. You have to tell him honestly and very frankly that sex is not the priority. Talk to each other well and have a good and close conversation. Besides, having good sex needs lots of practise. I do hope that the both of you are together and not break up just because of "sex". All the best.