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PrincessAlly
07-19-2001, 01:10 PM
WEll, i need advice on how to deal with an ex. I also want to get him back. we broke up over some stupid stuff. and now when i see him out,he is always staring at me. He also asks his friends where i am and what i do and he asks questions about me. i dont understand why if he claims that he doesnt want to be with me. what should i do??:bawling:

sandrababe
07-22-2001, 01:32 PM
think carefully abt getting back to him... if he really wanna know how u r... etc... why can't he ask u personally? since he's the one who leaves u.... then let him be the one to get u back.... not u crawling back to him... make him work harder to have u... and make sure he doesn't just want u back and then.... leaves u when he feels like it...:mad:

Sandy
07-25-2001, 12:35 PM
Hi PrincessAlly!!!
Me,at your place,I should be very angry about him and I should just let him do his shit to an other girl!!!He wants to play with you and he see that it works...You have to be independant!!!With that way,it works sometimes!!!But if you really want him...jump on him,kiss him and...sometimes it works too but if it doesn't work,you gonna be hurt a lot!!!(I know...I done it once!)
No,forget about that idea!!!!!!!!!! I wish you to do the good choice and take care!!!!!!:sick: Don't be sick about him!
:lips:Sandy :lips:

sandrababe
07-26-2001, 01:34 PM
dance like no one is watching and love like it's never gonna hurt...

p/s: can't remember who's quote is this;)

marieva
08-06-2001, 02:51 PM
Really think about the bad times and why you two broke up. It's easy to remember the good times, but unless someone has changed, those same things could creep up again and bite you in the ass.

If, after that, you still want to get back together. Then casually say hi, or approach him at the next function. Make a little bit of small talk and go about your business. If he wants the same he will contact you. If he does contact you, keep your cool and know that you are in the driver's seat. Don't move too fast. Watch for those old things that broke you two up before and if you start to see those same things, I would end it there before things get out of hand.

Good luck to you.