why did he marry me?

[sweetdede4u]

:confused: I have not been married a year yet and I am not sure he loves me. he isolates a lot and appear angry a lot. We communicate effectively maybe 6 days out of a month. His excuse is he doesn't know how to socialize. He hardly ever appears happy. He is so self righteous. i am so unhappy and always thinking of ways to end this. I have planned to leave in two months if there is no improvement.

[E76]

Was he different before you got married?

[tc47]

They say the first year is the toughest and if there isn't any communication its going to be a very long year. How long have you known him? It sounds like he has probably had this problem most if not all of his life.

[E76]

Perhaps the better question would be, "Why did I marry him?" I don't mean for this to sound harsh, it is coming from the best of intentions, but if you are one of those people who quits marriage after less than a year, you are part of the problem, not the solution. It is one thing if he is abusive or something, but it doesn't sound like he is.