Girls, tell me...

[Rock Star]

What kind of attitude or personality traits do you look for in a guy. Explain how those traits make you feel. What's the most important number one thing that you look for in a guy? Why is it important?

Later

[angel143ml]

:angel6:

What personality traits do I like in a guy? I like guys who have a good sense of humor, someone who can make me laugh, it makers you feel good to laugh. I like for the guy I'm interested in to be self-confident enought to approach me, have enough self-esteem to like themselves in order to be able to treat me right, as a human being, and enough self-worth that they are able to respect me and not try to force something to happen before I'm ready. :p ;) :D
As Far as attitude goes: I like for the guy to be mature enough to be able to act his age, have a playful side at the same time, and treat me the same way in front of his friends or were alone.:rainbow:

The most important thing I look for when I'm interested in a guy is if he is the type that is into monogomous relationships or if he plays the field. If he plays the field he is not worth the time, as far as I'm concerned. I'm only interested in one-on-one relationships.

Angel143ml

:angel6:

[SarahMini]

I might want a lot, but here it goes...
I want a guy that will chase me. I won't put up a fight for long if he tries to get my attention. I like a guy who tells me how he feels when he's around me, and if he misses me when I'm gone, I like to hear that too. I like a guy that can make me laugh, a guy that can calm me down and make me feel that when he's around, that nothing can go wrong. I like a guy who gives me butterflies when he's around, a guy who has an attitude to everyone but me. Who can talk to me, and would do anything for me, and is just a little bit jealous. And good on the eyes isn't bad either :)
But definitely someone whom I can trust, who respects me, who tells me how he feels, and is compassionate, but blunt about his opinion on things. And definitely someone who knows how to be respectful around my family, and who makes me comfortable.

[chrissy81]

i know i like guys who are confident and who are not afraid to say whats on their mind. i like guys to express how they feel and if they have a girlfriend they should show it and make her feel apprciated. i also like guys who have a sense of direction in life. i also like a guy who is playful, who can have fun and act immature sometimes, but also has a serious side too. i would like a guy to be upfront about what he wants in a relationship, i dont like guys who play games and lead girls on. i would also like someone who works hard and can get a job done, i dont like lazy guys!! i would also like someone who is romantic and a guy who isnt MIA. i cant stand that. if you like a girl why wouldnt you want to spend time with her?? and finally a guy who has manners and who is polite, i dont like guys that use the F word after every other word they say, it sounds immature and disrespectful!!!

[Truth Syrup]

Let me sumarise some key ones : 1. Confidence
2. Sense of humour
3. Honesty and go getter attitude (ie. doesn't leave it u p to the girl to make the move).
4. Romantic ( romance goes a long way)
5. Has some direction/goals

There ya go ask me anything about women and i can do a list but guys on the other hand :D ........

[pleaseloveme]

Being as how I don't think there will be any guy in the world that would find me atractive, I don't want to awful much.

1) Christian, I figure if he's a christian, and Loves God, he's not gonna wanat to hurt me. If he'll stick to his convictions, commitment, isn't that what I hear all the girls complaining their guy dosn't have?

2) Totally in love with me, I'm into romance books, and romance anyting, is there any guy that is like the guys in the books? I doubt it, but I want a guy to love me, that would rock.

3) Thinks I'm beautiful, wouldn't you love to have someone say, "You are so beautiful! I am so lucky to have you!" Would that not rock? Wouldn't that make you cry?

Is that to much to want in a guy? Am I aiming to high?

[SSJay]

I'm not saying you girl are lairs, but how odd. I know some other guy would just say this, but I read all of your what you want in a guy and all of them describe me exactly. Maybe, this would explain quite a bit, but I dont know you would have to know me to know for sure.

I think one thing that was one any of yours, was constantly happy of smiling. Maybe, thats not what you want. Yet, I read somewhere that if you practice smiling and always smile you will pull people to you, ever since I read that, for some weird reason I always smile (execpt when I can not at all).

I don't think anybody will believe this reply, so I almost didnt post this, but I stand up to everything I need to do or want to do.


Later : Jay

[LoversLand]

To be honest, loving and just be there for me when I need him.:love:

[LoVeStRuCkDuCk]

To be honest, loving and just be there for me when I need him.

no truer words have ever been spoken.

[hot4tchr]

This is not necessarily listed in order of importance....

1. Confidence. :cool:
A man with confidence is a major turn on. He knows himself, what he wants in life, and doesn't have a problem going for it.

2. Adventurous and full of surprises!:devil:
Being adventurous in the bedroom is a huge plus, keeps things from getting dull, but I also mean in every aspect of life...

3. Honest, sincere, faithful, not into games.:good:
You don't lie to your friends, don't lie to your girl...if there is no trust, there is no relationship.

Now I just need to locate him.....:heart:

[Rock Star]

"Direction in life?"

You have to be more specific about that.

I mean, what if the direction I really wanted in life
was to sit around and drink beer all day, wanting to
still live with my parents when I'm 42, tipping cows
every Friday night of my life, and wanting to work
at McDonald's for the rest of my life? What if that
was the direction the guy you were really interested
in really wanted in life?

You all get what I'm saying there?

(By the way, I only want one of those things
in life. But not all the time.)

Also, "knowing himself?"

Don't you think since you are yourself, you know yourself?
I mean, every second of your life was spent with yourself.

What do you all mean about that?

[WickedVixsen]

Yanno, I dont' see much use in saying "this is what I look for in a guy/girl" ...because when you do that, it seems like it always comes back and bites ya in the butt. You end up with someone the exact opposite of what you THOUGHT you wanted.

I say just keep your heart and mind open and when the "zing" comes, don't pass it by because they're not the "picture" you had in your mind.

[Kitkatness]

I am young still so I don't know exactly what I would want in a guy, I do know this though, I would want someone that would be there for me when I was in a tough part of my life and had a great since of humor and could always make me laugh, I would want someone that not necessarily had "a direction in life" or whatever that means, (though it wouldn't hurt to) but someone that was not lazy and would go out and get a job or at the least try. Those are a few things that I know I would like but I would always keep an open mind about everything because if you went by a "list" of what you want in a guy, then you may pass up the guy of your dreams because they didn't have one quality that you had to have. Those are just my thoughts on it. Thanks for reading :)

[1800bob4bob]

yeah i go for your typical good sence of humor nice treats me with respect blah de blah, but let me tell you what i DONT like.

when a guy acts like he's the best thing in the world, he thinks every woman wants him, and that you should consider it an honor just to be seen with him. he thinks he's the greatest lover, greatest dresser, greatest everything. its those type of guys who will never love anyone but themselves, and i wish they would all DIE.

thank you and goodnight.

[dewshine]

I like:

Sincere
Honest
Caring
Affectionate
Open minded
Easy going
Someone who's there for me when I need them


I don't like:

Controling
Oppinionated
Conceited
unfaithful
emotionally distant
lying
head games

[q1snowbaby]

I've heard it said that you don't really fall in love with "them", you fall in love with the way you feel about Yourself when you're with them. What do you think?


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