idunno
10-30-2002, 08:39 PM
Well let me apologize in advance for my rambling that will occur somewhere in this post, its not on purpose but i just always seem to do it.
Im currently 18 and in my first year of college. I cannot tell if this girl has any interest in me or not. Either she does and sometimes hides it or she doesnt and because i like her i translate it into that she has flashes of liking me. Well about 2 weeks into my class (only 2 classes a week so like the 4th class) she asks my name and i ask hers and we talked for a bit and i just happened to have woken up late that day and threw on an orioles hat so she asks if i like the orioles and i know that most girls dont like the whole sports thing so i just say that they are ok and i just go to a few games here and there. So then maybe because that was our only interest but she kept talking about the orioles and then eventually the postseason and world series. At one point i had planned to take her to an orioles game and the day i was going to ask her she said that she had gotten tix for the upcoming saturday and asked if i was going and i had tix and already before that for that day so i did and i told her were i was sitting and i gave her my cell number in case she still couldnt find me but she never showed up. So eventually i get her email address and screen name and i had planned to go to a 6 flags and it was thursday and wouldnt have another class before i was going to go so i wrote an email and never got a response. But everyday she sees me she always makes an effort to say hi to me and to start some kind of conversation with me, no matter the topic.
Other things like we had to stand up and do this thing in a circle with the whole class and she makes an effort to go through people to stand next to me for it are the contradict my thoughts on whether she does or does not like me. I had planned to ask her today if she wanted to go do something sometime and i know it seems casual to her and that ive read to judge by their reaction on whether they are interested or not but because i know the real end reason that i am asking then if the reaction is not a good one then it doesnt do anything for me. Im the kind of guy that will do anything in public infront of anyone as long as someone would think it is funny; even if most thought it was dumb...so its not a matter of what anyone else would think but its a matter of my self dignity. It goes back to that whole no thing and that just is some reality that i cant deal with.
So honestly does she like me or not? do you need to know more about the situation first? What should i do? Any help about anything at all related to this would be very much appreciated because honestly i dont know what to do. THANKS!!!!
Im currently 18 and in my first year of college. I cannot tell if this girl has any interest in me or not. Either she does and sometimes hides it or she doesnt and because i like her i translate it into that she has flashes of liking me. Well about 2 weeks into my class (only 2 classes a week so like the 4th class) she asks my name and i ask hers and we talked for a bit and i just happened to have woken up late that day and threw on an orioles hat so she asks if i like the orioles and i know that most girls dont like the whole sports thing so i just say that they are ok and i just go to a few games here and there. So then maybe because that was our only interest but she kept talking about the orioles and then eventually the postseason and world series. At one point i had planned to take her to an orioles game and the day i was going to ask her she said that she had gotten tix for the upcoming saturday and asked if i was going and i had tix and already before that for that day so i did and i told her were i was sitting and i gave her my cell number in case she still couldnt find me but she never showed up. So eventually i get her email address and screen name and i had planned to go to a 6 flags and it was thursday and wouldnt have another class before i was going to go so i wrote an email and never got a response. But everyday she sees me she always makes an effort to say hi to me and to start some kind of conversation with me, no matter the topic.
Other things like we had to stand up and do this thing in a circle with the whole class and she makes an effort to go through people to stand next to me for it are the contradict my thoughts on whether she does or does not like me. I had planned to ask her today if she wanted to go do something sometime and i know it seems casual to her and that ive read to judge by their reaction on whether they are interested or not but because i know the real end reason that i am asking then if the reaction is not a good one then it doesnt do anything for me. Im the kind of guy that will do anything in public infront of anyone as long as someone would think it is funny; even if most thought it was dumb...so its not a matter of what anyone else would think but its a matter of my self dignity. It goes back to that whole no thing and that just is some reality that i cant deal with.
So honestly does she like me or not? do you need to know more about the situation first? What should i do? Any help about anything at all related to this would be very much appreciated because honestly i dont know what to do. THANKS!!!!