Txcwby84
10-27-2002, 12:24 AM
Ok im in a bit of a situation and I dont know if im just stupid for waiting or is it for real?
Ok we met three years ago and we went out for a couple months. I completly fell in love with her and she said that she loved me too. And after a few months of going out she broke up with me. I was heart broken but continued to love her even when we didnt talk for a long time. and about 7 months ago we started to talk again and she told me that she still loved me and the thing she regreted most in her life was breaking up with me. We started to become extremely close friends and we are now best friends. And we talked about going back out but she chose to go out with another guy instead. She told me that she wanted to make sure that she had feelings for only me and no other guys. They have been going out for about six months but we still say I love you to each other and recently she told me that she was completly in love with me and that she wanted to be with me for the rest of her life. And I have felt that way for a while and now thay she feels the same I belive that it will happen. We plan on going to college together and have planned the rest of our lives together, yet she says that she loves the guy shes with and doesnt want to break up with until shes sure that shes completly over him. So I find my self waiting for her and I havnt really been looking for another gf or anything. She says that she doesnt want me to pass up an oppertunity just because im waiting for her, but im afraid that if i start going out with someone eles I might miss my opertunity.
Please tell me what you think, if im doing the right thing or if I should maybe rethink my plans and find someone else. and if its ment to happen then it will happen and not worry about it.
Ok we met three years ago and we went out for a couple months. I completly fell in love with her and she said that she loved me too. And after a few months of going out she broke up with me. I was heart broken but continued to love her even when we didnt talk for a long time. and about 7 months ago we started to talk again and she told me that she still loved me and the thing she regreted most in her life was breaking up with me. We started to become extremely close friends and we are now best friends. And we talked about going back out but she chose to go out with another guy instead. She told me that she wanted to make sure that she had feelings for only me and no other guys. They have been going out for about six months but we still say I love you to each other and recently she told me that she was completly in love with me and that she wanted to be with me for the rest of her life. And I have felt that way for a while and now thay she feels the same I belive that it will happen. We plan on going to college together and have planned the rest of our lives together, yet she says that she loves the guy shes with and doesnt want to break up with until shes sure that shes completly over him. So I find my self waiting for her and I havnt really been looking for another gf or anything. She says that she doesnt want me to pass up an oppertunity just because im waiting for her, but im afraid that if i start going out with someone eles I might miss my opertunity.
Please tell me what you think, if im doing the right thing or if I should maybe rethink my plans and find someone else. and if its ment to happen then it will happen and not worry about it.