Found the girl of my dreams, but not sure of things

[rjapz]

Hi everyone, I need a little advice on this one. I recently met the girl that I always wanted. I just feel unconfident cause 1, she studies law enforcement, 2 she knows at least 15 police officers and two of them calls almost every day and even at 1 and 3am. 3, She works as a security guard at a mall. And always talking about how funny the guys who work with her. 4, She has her own 3 bedroom house a pontiac firebird and about to get a 2001 chevy king cab. she's also living alone with her 2 children, married but separated and going for a divorce, 5 , she's half owner with her father of a beach front condo in Ocean City Maryland and she has a few more high value issues. And the real fact is that SHE ONLY 21 and I'm 25. Me, the total opposite. all of that makes me feel less of a man, I can't compare to that. I don't know how she feels about me, but that night we had a great time at her house, we sparked like i never with a girl before, she laughs at all my jokes, she hugs me, smiles at me. She emails me and at one point she told me she miss my company. She's has a super personality, the best sense of humor, kind and sweet. But I'm still on sure about all this, I don't know weather she's only doing this cause she's lonly,needs attention and love. Or that she really likes me and wants to start a relastionship, should I sit her down and talk to her about it, tell her how much I like her. What should I do? What's your advice?

[sweetdede4u]

:) I agree a self confidence is needed. The way you see yourself reflects on others. It sound s to me you feel inferior and your focus is on material things she has aquired. Do you see her peers calling her as being a problem and how would this effect your relaionship in the future? Remember having a positive self image is a key factor. It is not the things she have you should focus on but her heart.

[SunGirl128]

I think that if she enjoys your company as she says she does, she would also appreciate your honesty when you tell her about how you feel. Also if she says she's not into a relationship now, it may not be you. Divorce is a touchy subject that usually takes a while to deal with. So keep that in mind, but I would tell her how you feel.

[marieva]

I think she sounds like a girl who knows what she wants and you may have a low-self esteem issue. I think you should get that in check first, otherwise if things work out with this woman, you could sabatoge it with your own insecurities. Maybe read a book on self esteem or have a few sessions with a counselor to hash things out with an objective person.

I bet she doesn't care that you don't have as much material things as she does. If she's a good woman, she will just love you for you, but can you accept that? If not, take my previous advice. Good luck to you!

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