How do you heal a broken heart?

[Gcarebear04]

About a year ago, this guy really really liked me. But I didn't take him seriously. I thought he was just joking around. Things got ugly and we never hooked up. Over that summer, I realized how much I liked him. I called him up and he refused to talk to me. But when he found out that I was going to start dating someone, he came calling back. And I thought this was a chance for us to work things out again. He only wanted to be friends though and that's it. I felt as though I was played and things got worse again. We never communicated after that until two weeks ago. I heard he was looking for a girlfriend. And I thought well maybe, we can work things out again since it's been awhile. This time, I got in touch with him through e-mail and told him how sorry I was and etc. He never responded but the next day, he put up this webpage with all these pictures of him and his family and etc. I told him I really liked them. When I ask him if we could have another chance, he went off on me and said he wanted me to move on. I don't understand what I did wrong? Is it because he wants to take things slow and I keep wanting to be more than friends right away? I don't understand. Please help!

[Tyler]

the answer to your question is


TIME

it heals all

[cpbs3]

I am in that same boat you are and yes......time is one and possibly the only thing that can mend your heart.

Looking for someone else might turn your attention to that person but your feelings for that other person.....In My Oppion, will never go away. I still do love the person I have broken up with and let her go. But its for the best in someways.

Just turn your attention to others thing....skills, hobbies and try not to do things you and the other person did...but that infomation is people that break up not realy for you.

All the advise I can give you is........just let time take its course. If you are forgiving and he wants to come into your life then let him. But you if feel like he will hurt you again then move on to someone else.

Hope this helps :rolleyes:/:)

[Duh Blonde]

I completely agree with the above advice. Sometimes it's very hard, but only time can mend a broken heart.

[Datboyd]

Time is indeed the only cure, but try to help time out by not brooding over it. Don't sit around wondering what you did wrong, thats only going to delay the healing process. Get out, do something, pick up a hobby, keep your mind busy, find someone new (that always helps). Just don't stress over it.

[Gcarebear04]

Thanx for all your advice. It means alot to me. I just have to be strong and realize life is a journey and I will meet other guys. Some things in life aren't fair.

[1honestchick]

You need a fresh start. Time eases all things ~sophocles....In the meantime, is there a sport or a hobby you really like. I think now would be a GREAT time to take a art class, write a poem, play in a band, join a club, or go see a movie. Find an activity that you enjoy and have fun. Take care.

[Gcarebear04]

Thanx honest chick. I do need a fresh start. I just realized that in January it will be TWO YEARS of drama with him and we haven't gotten anywhere. I love writing poetry. I'm just doing to do more things to get my mind of him and spend more time with my friends and enjoying different places. Do you think there might be another chance in the future?? I know it sounds crazy but like 3 years from now, we run into each other, do you think it will be odd for the both of us? I know not anytime soon!

[angel143ml]

Gcarebear04,

From personal experience, I would say probably not. I went out with this one guy for 6 months, and then we split up, after 3 years we ran into eachother and dated again on and off for 2 years and 5 months, and it wasn't worth it seeing as he cheated the whole time. :rolleyes: You can't force something to happen that's not meant to happen. :( I believe that what is meant to be will be, and if it isn't, you'll know, which is probably why it didn't work out to begin with. The only reason that you're regreting the way you treated him is because your second guessing yourself. o as 1honestchicks says and move on to a fresh start. Good Luck, things do get better.

Angel143ml

:angel6:

[tomkel1129211]

Originally posted by Tyler
the answer to your question is


TIME

it heals all

I agree. Time is the only answer. The hurt will (I promise), go away.