purplepassion30
10-18-2002, 01:00 AM
Hi everyone,
I talked to my male friend about coming to visit me as friends,no strings attached and he obliged.We discussed what would happen after he came and left and where we should go from there if it did or did not work.I kinda feel guilty of asking him to come visit after he has made plans on marrying this other gal,but I have to meet him..I realize I cant make a person care for me when their heart isn't in it,but I feel I need to at least see how things will go.I also know I can't make a person change their mind after a decision has been made,but I tend to believe that decisions can change sometimes.What do you out there think?Please be gentle because this has hurt me..
Thanks,
Purplepassion
I talked to my male friend about coming to visit me as friends,no strings attached and he obliged.We discussed what would happen after he came and left and where we should go from there if it did or did not work.I kinda feel guilty of asking him to come visit after he has made plans on marrying this other gal,but I have to meet him..I realize I cant make a person care for me when their heart isn't in it,but I feel I need to at least see how things will go.I also know I can't make a person change their mind after a decision has been made,but I tend to believe that decisions can change sometimes.What do you out there think?Please be gentle because this has hurt me..
Thanks,
Purplepassion