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[Skooter]

o k i guess i should just start. I met this girl in 10th grade, from the min i met her i new that there was something about her that captivated me. I asked her out and we dated..................for a week. There were no hard feelings and we became friends. Later on i asked her out again she said yes. The same thing happendshe broke up with me for unknown reasons. This went on untill my senior year of high school. We date do and off for a week or so at a time. By this time this girl is not only a good friend of mine (if not the best) but this great girl i cant have. Later on i come to find out that her parents wont let her date me because im mixed (black and white).She is white. So this past summer things were going the way they always did we flirted and talked a big game untill one day i proposed we be "friends with bennifits". We did for a few weeks so her parents wouldn't find out. She goes off to school and ends up dating two other guys and im still realizing that im in love with my best friend. Last time she came home (i go to college in the same city i went to high school in) we talked and it turns out that she still has feelings for me and i still love her but she says her parents are in the way. She just came home again this weekend and im starting to wonder if she is just using me as that "guy i got back home" or if she still loves me like she did in the past and over that summer. But she says that she is weary of the consequences of her parents finding out about it if we did date, her parents have always be strict and their relationship is finally not hostile now that she is at school.
Also she is two hours away from me so if we did try something it would be long distance. On the other hand i am transferign to that school next year.
I want to ask her what is going on but I'm not sure how. She is my best friend and i dont want to lose that but at the same time there is nothing i want more in the world than to be with this girl.................

WHAT DO I DO???!!!!!

[1honestchick]

You both are best friends. She has moved on and is dating other guys at college. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings. She does like you, but only as a friend. It is time for you to let her go.

[Truth Syrup]

Well I think she did like you at least at that time a lot but parents have a big influence especially in teen years. Anyway I think if she is really your best friend you can talk to her about how you feel and ask her whats going on? that you just want to clear the air. I think it was a big mistake on your part asking her to be "Friends with benefits" from what i've heard those things rarely work out - as you've discovered very hard to do that without getting attached and getting hurt. Anyway just talk to her only she can tell you how she really feels about you - we can only guess.

[mdl4483]

Lose her, since when have parents stopped girls from seeing guys they like, she would find some way around her parents if she loved you.