Can't deal any more

[Lambs]

I can’t handle it anymore! There is this super duper hot guy at my gym and I’m so in love. He looks about 22 and I’m 23. I always see him with a guy then lately I been seeing him with a girl also. He does not look interested in this girl at all, but I can tell the girl wants him bad too because she follows him around the gym and he’s always rolling his eyes at her. I bet they are semi dating and he’s like whatever about her. He does not stare at me but I keep catching him looking at me with a blank stare then turn his head like he was not looking. Then he will pass with out looking at all. oh my, he is beautiful!!! He is not there with the girl all the time so I might make a move but I’m clueless. A few weeks ago, I was in one of the rooms with him and some other people I know from working out, and everyone was talking , so I asked him a question and he answered like whatever and was pretty plain about it. I thought he was not into it but I keep seeing him look and look away still a lot. What should I do?

[voland]

Find a reason to strike up a real conversation. Ask him a question about his workout regimen and work in a compliment while you do so. Ask him to help you with some especially heavy weights. Whatever; men love to be asked questions so ask 'em.

[jurupa]

Another thing you can do is ask him to help you bench. I know you might not need the muscles, but doing about 15lbs won't be that bad and I am sure he will be happy to teach you how to bench correctly.

I know this from exprince.

[Lambs]

I did ask him about his weights and he answerd quickly. He seemed a bit scared. I would ask him to help me with weights also but that section is on another side of the gym we both don't go to. Have about any hot pick up lines? Or ways of looking at him. Maybe start a friendly conversation with his friend? Should I just give him a sexy smile and say HI seductivly? Any sugestions?

[voland]

If he's as shy as he sounds then don't expect to get too far right away. Just say "Hi" to him everytime you meet, and smile, of course. I'd continue to ask questions every-now-and-then, unless he starts to look annoyed. Of course, don't interrupt him while he's lifting.

[Sk8rBoyMC]

men love to be asked questions so ask 'em.

DAMN RIGHT!

Have about any hot pick up lines? Or ways of looking at him.

Maybe I'm wierd, but the way to get me, is bite your lip and tilt your head down a bit, and look at me...ah....*Knees weaken*

lol -Gizmo

[Lambs]

Aw, thankyou guys so much for the tips! More are welcome also. tee hee:D