IncuFabulous
10-15-2002, 09:58 AM
Whoa...it feels wierd to be back on this board........I've been away for awhile and haven't wanted to think about relationships...........but a few questions have popped into my head and they need to be asked.
First, I've been hanging around this girl and she is great. She has an awesome personality and a heart-melting smile. She is very caring and despite going through some trying times is one tough cookie.
I've only been getting to know her for about a month now. I know it is not infatuation. My feelings are real and based on having taken the time to get to know her. It is not based on looks or her flirting with me. She has been REAL with me.
She has recently opened up to me over the phone and said that she would like to get to know me better.
So while we work on our friendship and maybe make it turn into something else down the road, I have been examining my feelings. I feel very strong for her, I want to be there for her whenever she may need me, I want her to confide in me freely.
I WANT everything to happen now and I know that is my flaw at this point. I care for this person so much that I want things to happen now.
My questions:
Its only been a little over a month, but how do I tame or keep in check my feelings for her since I know I have to work at our friendship first?
Am I caring too much? Is it even possible?
Think of some more questions and answer them for me! :)
I don't get the feeling that taking a chill pill will help.
:p :p
First, I've been hanging around this girl and she is great. She has an awesome personality and a heart-melting smile. She is very caring and despite going through some trying times is one tough cookie.
I've only been getting to know her for about a month now. I know it is not infatuation. My feelings are real and based on having taken the time to get to know her. It is not based on looks or her flirting with me. She has been REAL with me.
She has recently opened up to me over the phone and said that she would like to get to know me better.
So while we work on our friendship and maybe make it turn into something else down the road, I have been examining my feelings. I feel very strong for her, I want to be there for her whenever she may need me, I want her to confide in me freely.
I WANT everything to happen now and I know that is my flaw at this point. I care for this person so much that I want things to happen now.
My questions:
Its only been a little over a month, but how do I tame or keep in check my feelings for her since I know I have to work at our friendship first?
Am I caring too much? Is it even possible?
Think of some more questions and answer them for me! :)
I don't get the feeling that taking a chill pill will help.
:p :p