sm2002
10-14-2002, 12:26 PM
I am pretty confused by this guy that I am really starting to like. About two months ago I left him a voicemail on his cell phone telling him that I had feelings for him and I knew that he wasn't ready for another relationship (he had a pretty nasty break up with his ex) but I just wanted to tell him how I felt --kind of cheesy I know--
Anyway, the next time I saw him he thanked me for the message..and I think he wanted to talk about it but we were at the movie theatre and I didn't really want to talk about it (I shied away for some reason) But since he never really said that he too was interested in me then I've just tried to come to grips with the fact that maybe he just isn't interested and we see each other all the time and things aren't awkward between us or anything for the most part. The thing I'm confused about though is I catch him staring at me sometimes (which was something I thought guys did when they WERE interested) Then when I try to kind of distance myself from him he seems to be upset about it. (Or that's the way it seems to me..I could be reading something into it that isn't there..at this point anything is possible) But he always talks about how he wants a 5'4, blond..and all this stuff that I'm not. :( I think that he is attracted to me..but I just don't understand why he talks about what he wants in a girl around me, and when I try to accept that maybe I'm just not his type, why he seems so upset..I just don't understand guys :confused:
Any clues would be appreciated.
Anyway, the next time I saw him he thanked me for the message..and I think he wanted to talk about it but we were at the movie theatre and I didn't really want to talk about it (I shied away for some reason) But since he never really said that he too was interested in me then I've just tried to come to grips with the fact that maybe he just isn't interested and we see each other all the time and things aren't awkward between us or anything for the most part. The thing I'm confused about though is I catch him staring at me sometimes (which was something I thought guys did when they WERE interested) Then when I try to kind of distance myself from him he seems to be upset about it. (Or that's the way it seems to me..I could be reading something into it that isn't there..at this point anything is possible) But he always talks about how he wants a 5'4, blond..and all this stuff that I'm not. :( I think that he is attracted to me..but I just don't understand why he talks about what he wants in a girl around me, and when I try to accept that maybe I'm just not his type, why he seems so upset..I just don't understand guys :confused:
Any clues would be appreciated.