To flirt with my boyfriend's best friend

[Vissy]

I like my boyfriend's best friend, Gary. However, Gary is constantly wary of my jealous boyfriend whenever I flirt with him. Besides, he always together with my boyfriend whenever there is guys' outing. How can I flirt with him without arose my boyfriend's suspicious?

[PornStar69]

maybe you shouldn't be with your boyfriend if you are interested in his best friend, don't play mind games, if this situation was the other way around how would you feel. If you don't like your bf then don't saty with him to give him the wrong idea. Think once before you speak think twice before you act

[GhettoKid21]

Why you gotta be flirting with your boyfriends friend????......I think it would suck if you broke up with your boyfriend just to go out with his friend......ive been in that kind of situation before but my girlfriend dumped me and 4 days later I went out with her best friend LOL.........I didnt even mean to.......Anyways, I would strongly suggest that you stop flirting with his friend because you wouldnt wanna be called a bitch would ya!?!?!

[blackonblackz]

danng.. thats so mest up....seems to me like you need to lay off the flirting... i'm sure your boyfriend has more respect for you than you do for him... do you see him flirting w/ your best friend. .. or your close friend?

[sweetiecutie]

Flirting with your boyfriend's best friend is one of the worst situations you can get yourself into, and one of the most awkward as well.

If you're so interested in his best friend, you obviously have issues with your boyfriend. You should tell your boyfriend how you feel, so that it doesn't come as a shock as much as if he were to find out you were flirting with his best friend. Also, if you were to end up dating his best friend, and all of you went out together, how would you handle the awkward situation of seeing your boyfriend who you left for a best friend? Also, how is their friendship? Would this guy betray his friend like that by dating his girlfriend?

These are all things you need to consider before getting yourself into a situation that will be very uncomfortable.

[Milkman Dan]

I like my boyfriend's best friend, Gary. However, Gary is constantly wary of my jealous boyfriend whenever I flirt with him. Besides, he always together with my boyfriend whenever there is guys' outing. How can I flirt with him without arose my boyfriend's suspicious?

That's really not cool. Flirting with your boyfriend's friend behind his back? Sounds like you've got issues with your boyfriend you need to work out.

If you want his friend rather than him, I suggest you break up with your boyfriend first. There's nothing worse than being in a relationship and seeing someone on the side at the same time.

[Miss Direction]

Having a vagina doesn't make you almighty. You can't have your cake and eat it too. You disgust me!

Not to mention, if his "best friend" was really that, he would want nothing to do with you and/or date you after you dumped him. You would not only look like a bitch, but learn the hard way that it's "bros before hoes" with us men.

Maybe I should sprinkle out some troll food for the troll to feed upon?

[LoveStruckGuy]

Having a vagina doesn't make you almighty. You can't have your cake and eat it too. You disgust me!

Not to mention, if his "best friend" was really that, he would want nothing to do with you and/or date you after you dumped him. You would not only look like a bitch, but learn the hard way that it's "bros before hoes" with us men.

Maybe I should sprinkle out some troll food for the troll to feed upon?

Right on
I hope she does learn the hard way. Talk about an attention whore. What a bitch...

[Lingua]

You can have both of them: Tell your boy/f and his mate you want a 3some.

[Rickson]

You're asking how to successfully flirt with your boyfriend's best friend an not get caught? What are you, some kind of homewrecker? Do you know what kind of ramifications that could bring? If you want to leave your boyfriend so much, just leave him for a stranger and not his friend because if your boyfriend has a set of balls on him, he'd kill you both! Do yourself a favor and don't mess around with the friend, you could really get hurt in the process and I mean more than emotionally.

[VegasGirl]

Could be worse... I've had sex with my boyfriend's best friend and now live with the friend... who is also married with a boy. My boyfriend knows about it though and the best friend and his wife have an arrangment between the two of them making it ok as well... To each there own. Don't do it if everyone isn't ok with it though.

[mrrocko]

as someone who rarely says negative things on these boards, I hope your boyfriend does catch on, dumps you in a way that makes you look/feel like sh!t, and then the best friend you're interested in completely uses the hell out of you. That Vissy, is what you deserve...

[VegasGirl]

The thing is that my boyfriend DOES already know. Our relationship is open and with the exception of a few rules, we can do pretty much whatever we want with others. I agree that if he didn't know or wasn't ok with it then it would be a horrible thing but we've talked about it and set up certain boundaries so that everyone's comfortable with the situation, and we're honest with each other.

[mrrocko]

The thing is that my boyfriend DOES already know. Our relationship is open and with the exception of a few rules, we can do pretty much whatever we want with others. I agree that if he didn't know or wasn't ok with it then it would be a horrible thing but we've talked about it and set up certain boundaries so that everyone's comfortable with the situation, and we're honest with each other.


I was referring to Vissy in my statement. I'm not gonna touch your situation, lol.

[ajvv628]

lol do u people realize vissy posted this almost 4 years ago and wat ever problems she had are most likely gone away.

[mrrocko]

Thanks for pointing that out

[TheRev]

lol... now I'm glad I decided not to reply to this one. No need to point out the paradox, mind.