Ladies ,am I correct in the top 5qualitiesyou look...

[jamesravin57]

Ladies are these the top 5 qualities you look for in Men?

1. Sense of HUmor

2.Honesty

3. Clear goals

4. Attractive looking

5.In shape

[meg]

Those are nice, but it's not complete. Meg

[angel143ml]

:angel6:

YES, THERE ARE A FEW THINGS QUALITIES THAT YOU LEFT OUT. SUCH AS,

1. FAMILY ORIENTED
2. PASSIONATE
3. DEPENDABLE
4. TRUSTWORTHY
5. PATIENT

:angel6:

THE LAST TWO QUALITIES ON YOUR LIST DON'T RATE AS HIGH AS THESE AS FAR AS I AM CONCERNED. I THINK WHAT ONE PERSON MIGHT BE ATTRACTED TO, WON'T NECESSARILY BE ATTRACTIVE TO ANOTHER. IF A GUY DOESN'T HAVE MORE THAN A BUFF BODY AND LOOKS, HE'S NOT A CATCH.



:angel6:

[SarahMini]

We also need:

Considerate
Compassionate
Confident

Oh, and guys- don't be such jerks around your friends and treat us like crap just because you don't want to appear "whipped"

[reign226]

Well, I always treat females with respect even with my friends around. I don't do the 'change attitude' thing. However, it's the 'when I am alone with a girl' that I am having problems with, but it's mainly communication problems. I seem to have more to talk about with friends. Any thoughts?

[Gan]

reign226, just treat girls exactly the same as you'd treat guys! You said you have no problem talking to your friends right? Then it makes it easier to talk to a girl you don't know, because unlike your friends, she knows nothing about you and you know nothing about her. This is where conversation and flirting comes from. Get to know one another, you can talk about practically anything in each others lives (nothing too private for starters obviously). Start with what they do - school, work? Ask questions about the place they work at? Grab bits of info from each thing she says to you and then follow it up. If she talks about how she doesn't like her work, ask her why. If she talks about a class at school, ask her about that class. One on one is a lot better because there are no distractions. It's great!! :)

-Gan