Ladies, what matters the most?

[Nice Girl]

To all ladies on the boards:

Does a man's penis size matters?
And if you are in a meaningful relationship with someone who you just discovered did not do it for you sexually, do you call it quits and become his friend, or do you look beyond his short comings and continue with the relationship?

[meg]

Hmmm....

Personally, size isn't an issue with me. Unless it's huge, then I'm running away! ( laughing )

If someone wasn't doing it for me sexually and I was in a meaningful relationship, I would talk to him about it.

( laughs @ short comings )

I think most men are capable of making up the difference by using their tongues, fingers, toys...can make sex interesting as well.

Please tell me this isn't about Mr. Wonderful! ( laughs )

[Nice Girl]

Contrary to that my lady.

Mr Wonderful is blessed in a special way. God was very generous to him, plus he is a master at his work! LOL


YES! He is superb! I saw things that weren't even there!

[meg]

LMAO!

I have a friend that wont date a man if his penis isn't at least 9 inches. We tease her alot, of course! She swears up and down that short men have larger ones!

[angel143ml]

IF A GUY DOESN'T KNOW WHAT HE'S DOING, IT WON'T MATTER HOW BIG HE IS, HE'LL STILL BOMB!:wall:
NOW IF HE'S ONLY BOMBING CAUSE HE'S NERVOUS, THEN IF YOUR PATIENT ENOUGH, AND GIVE HIM ENOUGH REASSURANCE, HE'LL EVENTUALLY HIT THE JACKPOT ONCE HE'S ABLE TO RELAX, WHICH IS WHAT MY EX-BOYFRIENDS PROBLEM WAS, AT LEAST WHAT ONE OF HIS PROBLEMS WAS.
I BELIEVE IN GIVING THE GUY AS MANY CHANCES AS POSSIBLE TO GET IT RIGHT! IF YOU REALLY LOVE THE GUY, YOU'LL TRY TO DO YOUR PART IN MAKING HIM FEEL COMFORTABLE AND SAFE ENOUGH TO RELAX IN ORDER FOR HIM TO DO HIS PART. :angel6:

[LoVeStRuCkDuCk]

it's not size that counts, it's how well you use what you've got.

[hot4tchr]

If a man knows how to get into a woman's head, and really turn her on, it doesn't matter. If he's a complete idiot, then yes, he better be damn impressive.

Might as well have something to brag about to my girls. That relationship won't last anyway....:devil:

[Paco]

Originally posted by LoVeStRuCkDuCk
it's not size that counts, it's how well you use what you've got.

What? That's it? No clues for the men around here?! ;)

[all4amy]

Originally posted by Paco


What? That's it? No clues for the men around here?! ;)

Haha, I agree. No clues? Here, I'll just come out and say it. What's a good size for all you women out there? :p

All women say that size doesn't matter, and it probably doesn't, but let's have the real answers that most people are wanting to see. ;) Measurements! :eek: :D

I'm only 6" long, 6" wide, I won't lie, I'm not your biggest and I'm just about average, but damn, i know what to do with it.

[nicholemichelle]

This probably wont be the reply you want, but I know that what matters most to me is the secure feeling before and after intimacy. I seriously don't care how big a guy is. I just want to feel loved, and I want the guy to want to touch me, and look at me...not just worry about sex. The feeling of comfort and love is all that matters. And I know alot of girls say that, and they don't seem like they are telling the truth, but tell me a girl who wants to have this wonderful night, and wake up in the morning, and the guy not even wanting to look you in the eye. That is the most horrible feeling in the enitre world. I would know. So, if I were you, I wouldn't worry about it much. I am sure you know how to love...and when you find a special girl, thats all that will matter to her.

[all4amy]

yes, i agree that the feeling of making "real love" is greater than any size or any physical feature anyone can provide. The feeling of being sooo connected, so as one, with every nerve in your body stimulated and both your eyes looking deep into each others, is something really unexplainable. That feeling is soooo much greater than any orgasm or any sexual favor that might occur. I've been with my girl for 3 years now and I'd have to say that we've had sex hundreds of times, but only made love twice. The love making felt sooo much greater than the simple everyday sex... :rolleyes:

[nicholemichelle]

Exactly

[Rock Star]

If a girl dumped me because of size (which I have no problem in that area) or if she dumped me because I finished before her the first time we made love, (and maybe the second time) I would laugh!

Anyone who is that critical, doesn't give anyone a second chance, and who thinks sex is more important in a relationship than love has got problems.

Basically, it's like someone falls in love with someone
and then that person dumps the person because
that person bought that person the wrong pack of gum
or the wrong brand of frozen pizza or the toilet seat was left up!

I mean, what guy would want a girl like that anyway?
I'd say, "F*ck off!"

[Miss Jaa]

IM going to be blunt..for me the best size is like 7 inches give or take..i rather have a bit smaller than bigger though because for me if its too big it can hurt..and i dont know about that whole "gotta be bigger than 9 in." thing. I'd think it wouldnt fit..at least not enough for the great sex

[ct63]

Meg said;
I think most men are capable of making up the difference by using their tongues, fingers, toys...can make sex interesting as well.

I agree with that and there is more to a good relationship than than just sex. Sex can be a plus but its not what its all about.

[l4linda]

Size doesn't matter to me. I had two long-term relationships with guys with really big dicks. Maybe it's just a coincidence, but the guys were really big dicks. I'm not saying all guys with big dicks are big dicks, but in both these guys' cases they seemed to be so impressed with themselves that they must have felt it was their obligation to give as many women as possible the benefit of their overabundant manhood. The quality of the character of the man the dick is attached to is much more important.

If sex wasn't great it would depend upon the quality of the other aspects of the relationship whether I'd stay romantically involved or want to be 'just friends.' Sometimes it's just a matter of practice and getting to know each other's bodies and what turns each other on. Just because it's not great in the early stages of a relationship doesn't mean it can't become great as the relationship matures. If the relationship is dynamic and growing, the sex usually improves with time.