still interested?

[CAL]

is she still interested?
Ok. Well I met a very cool girl through work about a year ago or so. Right from the start I thought she was really cute, but didnt give her a lot of thought to be honest as far as relationship goes.

Initially she started asking me lots of personal questions, what kind of girls I liked, whether I liked clubbing etc...

After about a couple of months, we started working together a bit more and she became very aggressive. She would be very flirtatious, with what she said and how she acted. She'd press her ...ummmm crotch onto me...while at work (I never really acted like I noticed a thing), used to constantly touch my arm and hands, and well touch my butt. Some of these things were done in a playful manner (butt) ...so I stupidly never really picked up on it...till some other things happened. After the weekend shed say that she really missed me, and days we diddnt work together she said she missed me etc...asked me whether I missed her...She then asked me out twice, I always just responded...yeah sure...but never really acted all that enthusiastic about it. She said " hey if you take me out for drinks you could probably get ...me drunk ...im sure..."...I said...well...Im the one that should be worried about being ...taken advantage of (She said she like me to take her out for drinks...but I never really knew if she wanted a date, a quickie or relationship...she had a boyfriend about two months before this, and never metnioned him again) ...We had a very very playful and flirtatuous "friendship". Well I didnt call her and actually moved ...a far distance... Called her eventually (I had lost the number for real, not sure if she believed me or not)...But the first time we spoke again...she asked if I wanted to meet up with her...when she was gonna be relatively close to visit relatives.

Well is she still interested? (Iill be moving back to her region in less than a year hopefully).

She seemed pretty excited about it and the fact that Im going to law school...

I guess I was just worried that after all this time...maybe...she had lost interest. We have been talking two or three times a week now, and she never ever mentions other guys...and I never mention other girls. What do you think?

DO YOU THINK SHE IS STILL INTERSTED AFTER ALL THIS TIME

[argon]

She probably is, otherwise she probably would be so eager to see you again. Go for it.

But she sounds a little skanky, so who knows if she'd ait for you until you moved back...

I dunno.

good luck

:devil:

[argon]

whoops, supposed to be "otherwise she probably wouldN'T be so eager to see you again. "

;)

[CAL]

Argon,
the thought has crossed my mind for sure...

I pretty much know her dating/sex background. I'll just be nice and say she used to be a freak.

If i were to hookup with her...i wouldnt' expect her to not go out with other guys or...for that matter...i wouldnt hold myself back either...

i do like her a lot...both her looks and personality. just a very fun person...

we did work with other guys my age...(24)...and they always thought she was awfully cold to them...so she def doesnt flirt with anything with pants.

interesting though...she mentioned...several times...

"I have never gone out with someone of your race...but id definately be willing to..." very random, since I never brought up such a thing. guess from what she said before...that she wondered if i would date interracially (i do).

[Nice Girl]

Hi Cal!

It is very obvious that this young lady is not sure about what she really wants. One minute she sounds like she wants a booty call and the next she might want to take a crack at a relationship. And the fact that she is confused makes you uncertain.

If you are interested, why don't you just be upfront and just ask her what she is looking for? That will spare you so much time and leave no room for games. Now if for any reason you feel that she is not real with you when you ask her....just follow your gut feeling.

[CAL]

When we meet up...

I will just see if we still have same chemistry and such. I'm supposed to stay over at her Father's house, during my little visit. Should be interesting.

[Karbonopsinos]

I think she's skanky and wants to get her greedy fingers into your attorney's wallet.

[argon]

lol, she's a little premature since he's still in school.

[CarinaZorra7426]

"I have never gone out with someone of your race...but id definately be willing to..." very random, since I never brought up such a thing. guess from what she said before...that she wondered if i would date interracially (i do).


She's a skank, she's a skank, she's a skank!!!!

CAL - what kind of person judges a person based on race? I've dated interracially before (well, and still do ;) ) and never have I ever said anything like that to "come on" to a guy. She said that she wants YOU to take HER out on a date. Why can't she just ask you out? She should quit playing games - if she wants to date you then she should be willing to come out of pocket for the date too. Men shouldn't have to pay for every date (though, I will admit I like it - but I do offer to pay about 1/2 the time). I'd be careful with her next time you see her. (Run Away, Run Away!!!)


Good luck sweetie - let us know what happens!

[CAL]

...I think that she wasn't sure if I would date interaccialy...that is why she wanted to make sure I knew that she was quite willing...

[argon]

She mustn't have thought rubbing her crotch all over you was enough of a hint that she'd be willing to date someone of your race. :rolleyes:

[argon]

Can I emphasize the 'willing' thing too? What a nice girl... doing your people a favor like that. :p