Please Give Advice

[N1kitasS4girl]

I have been dating a guy for six months, and I really love him alot. He is everything I could ever ask for and more, but there's this friend that I have. He is a really sweet guy and I love him as a friend, but he is wanting to have sex with me, and I am having temptaions to do it with him also. I really love my boyfriend alot, and we are talking about marriage, I don't want to break his heart, but that temptaion I have is a bother! Please help me out and tell me what I should do...Thanx!

[maverick]

i myself had undergone such problem that once i had a girlfriend but there are other girls who wants to sleep with me... the catch to this is the girls are not expecting anything in return... they just love the idea of sleeping with me... they respect my relationship with my g.f.! if you could sleep with your friend and your friend won't ask for anything else besides to share a wonderful night with you... still respect your relationship with your b.f. then i think it's o.k.(male point of view) ... i have said this things cause the time i had a g.f. i respected her like a god that i didn't even tried to touch her, even the tip of her finger... and as a male i have my needs... like sex... but i always see to it that if ever i will sleep with someone else is just for the sake of satisfying my urge not to replace my g.f.!!! hope this thing could help you solve your problem... god bless you!!!! :)

[N1kitasS4girl]

That is a very good idea. I repect my b.f. alot, and I know my friend only wants to have sex with me...so what you said really clicked.

[Byron]

Do upon others as you want others do upon you.

Do you mind your bf having sex with another girl who just want to have sex with him? If you can answer this question then you already have the answer inside your heart.

[N1kitasS4girl]

Gee........

[nekosmilee]

First of all, do you really love him the way you said you do?! Then if you do why ruin a wonderful relationship just because your friend wants to sleep with you. You should show some respect for yourself and to your boyfriend. It doesn't matter if it's just to have a wonderful sex with a friend....what matters is the dignity and respect that you have for yourself and your boyfriend. I think that no matter how huge of an urge you've got to sleep with your friend, think about the hearts that you will be breaking. You'll be breaking your heart and especially your b.f. Give your b.f. the love, respect, and the dignity that he deserves. I know that you love him...but why mess it up when you have it going great. Don't throw away what's already best....believe me you will regret it forever.