Not Sure If She Is For Real

[jeff]

Well lets just say i do more for her then she could ever do for me
I wish i knew if she realy likes me or not there is such a age differnce that i think she is just enjoying me and all i cook for her loan her money great sex :you see she is 26 and i am 40 but a good looking 40 i might say so what do i do HELP!!!!!!!:confused:

[N1kitasS4girl]

You should just talk to her about this. Liek maybe ask her to do something for you to see if she will return the favor...

[katty]

Hello Jeff,

Did you ask her if she loves you and willingly to spend her remaining life with you?

I think she is really fortunate to have you showering her with your love.

[deelia]

Hello Jeff

Sorry to be very blunt but I've never been a quiet person so I'll just blurt this offence out.

OF COURSE SHE'S NOT FOR REAL!!! and neither are you at this point in your life. You sound like a living, breathing, walking mid-life crisis!!! She is almost half your age and you're her sugar daddy.
If she was really the woman for you, you wouldn't feel like you're buying her love and if you were the real man for her you wouldn't even be asking this question nor would you feel so insecure about yourself when you're with her (you come across that way to me with the way that you are applauding yourself verbally with your references to your sexual prowess and looks). As I always say, if you know you got it, you don't need to flaunt it...People will already be looking!!!
Now I am only 27 years old but please take my advice. Kill the dough and learn to grow. Focus on growing up and being real with yourself and trust me you won't ever have to worry about your girl (woman :) ) being real or not.
Peace!

[Nice Girl]

Wow!

You were a great catch! Unfortunately there are no lines for you to read between. It is pretty obvious that you are her "Sugar Daddy" as mentioned before.
Maturity normally somes with age and experience unless one is too scared to grow up and is weened. But anyway, you are simply being used but blinded by the "great sex'.

There is more to a relationship than great sex. There is love, respect, commitment, loyality, trust and the list goes on and on. Forget the sex and put this gold digger on the spot for a minute. Put her in the position where you have to rely on her for something very important. Make her see that you are in an immediate need. Or better yet turn the tables on her and borrow some money. LOL

In a relationship you give and take no matter if one is in a better financial position than the other. This is coming from someone who has been there!

[meg]

Did I miss the orginal post? It seems everyone has more information than me -- laughing Meg

[Nice Girl]

Hey Meg!
I am just trying to rescue this "sweet man" aka Sugar Daddy from a young girl with a sweet tooth! LOL

[meg]

He doesn't trust her. That is no type of relationship to be in.

Jeff, you're 40 years old. You know whether she loves you or not. You should be able to tell by her actions. Meg