Need Advice

[Morho]

Hiya

There is this girl at College that I am very keen on getting to know. But alas I am a very shy guy.
We have both been doing the odd look at each other quickly thing, then looking away again (U know what I mean).
So I have a feeling she might be interested in me.
Now we are not in the same class, but we are both in the same year of the course. But I do see her around the campus a lot.

I have been thinking about going upto her out of the blue, and just striking up a conversation with her, to get to know her. But as I have said before, I am very shy, and scared of being rejected and making a fool out of myself.

So any advice. Should I go upto her and talk, or something else?

thanks

[ShyANSLY]

Well...it seems that this girl may like you, so let me tell you a few things. I believe if you read my post "UPDATE:guy with a girl Problem" you will see that I was faced with a pretty embarrassing problem, and was almost ready to give up. I am a pretty shy guy to, but life isnt worth worrying about what everyone will think, and whats the worst that could happen. So, she says she busy, and your ability to approach girls has improved, and that may also let her know that you have an interest in her. However, when some people are presented with a new situation they get in the habit of saying no*kinda like a natural reflex* so dont worry. However, after it sinks in she might make the first move, or you can try asking again. Now, whats the best that can happen?? So, she agrees to meet with you, and you end up either making a great friend, which could led to the meeting of other women, or you end up dating this girl, and you have a great time. Dont worry so much, and just make your move. You will be glad u did.

[meg]

Suggestion: Compliment her on something such as her hair, if you like it up or down say so. Just walk by and casually say, I like your hair better down, it softly frames that beautiful face. Or I like your hair up, it shows those sexy eyes. Get the idea? Then just walk away. Don't say nothing else. Wait and see what happens. Meg

[Judas]

Yeah, compliments are good, especially if it's something kinda different. (new outfit/hairstyle/sex change etc.) I like going for the hopefully funny-common ground too. Like, if you have the same professor and he/she has a weird habit you could comment on that. People like to laugh. But the compliment is probably stronger. Especially if it's something she might be nervous about looking goofy or what-not.
And if she says something rude you can always respond with, "Well if you're gonna be that way then I'm not going to give you my phone number/I'm not going to let you take me out to_[insert expensive restuarant here]. ;)