ChrisS
08-22-2002, 05:00 PM
First of all would like to say hello to everyone.
Ok, so here is my problem.. I recently got back into dating after being out of it for almost four years.. I have been single now for going on 5 months and decided to start going out and tring to meet new people..
I went back to my home town to see if I could find some old friends.. Mission accomplished, forgot how much fun I use to have with them.. While hanging out with them I got asked to go to a concert / picnic with them the following day.. When I showed up to meet with them I was asked to go pick up a friends sister and have her ride with me down to the concert..
The sister and I had a thing way back when, but I was asked not to date her cause of the age difference at the time ( I was in college, and she was still in High School ).. I did as I was asked cause I didnt want to cause problems..
When I went to pick her up, I didnt really think that the attraction would still be there.. But when I saw her that changed really quick.. Felt like I was in High School again and going out on a first date like in times of old..
We drove to the concert, talked the entire time, and to say the least, it was more than I even expected.. I would walk off and sit down, and she would come over and sit with me from time to time.. Other times she would stay with her family and friends and I would be talking to my friends..
When the concert ended I was asked to take her home, and I gladly excepted.. We talked even more on the way home, and decided to get some beer and go back to her house and hang out for the evening..
We ended up walking into her room mate throwing a party.. At this point I felt uncomfortable, I felt like the old fart of the bunch.. I played bartender and made some mixed drinks for some of the people there, and she went and got changed.. Nothing exciting, just a T shirt and Blue Jeans.. I then went and sat on the couch and started talking to some of the people there.. The next thing I know she is sitting next to me.. The rest of the night I started noticing that when I would get up to have a cigarette, she would be there, move to a different place to sit, she would be there..
Now, I am blonde and out of experience with seeing the signs.. But is the attraction mutual? or is she just being nice and tring to not make me feel left out?
Thanks for any advice given..
Mr. C
Ok, so here is my problem.. I recently got back into dating after being out of it for almost four years.. I have been single now for going on 5 months and decided to start going out and tring to meet new people..
I went back to my home town to see if I could find some old friends.. Mission accomplished, forgot how much fun I use to have with them.. While hanging out with them I got asked to go to a concert / picnic with them the following day.. When I showed up to meet with them I was asked to go pick up a friends sister and have her ride with me down to the concert..
The sister and I had a thing way back when, but I was asked not to date her cause of the age difference at the time ( I was in college, and she was still in High School ).. I did as I was asked cause I didnt want to cause problems..
When I went to pick her up, I didnt really think that the attraction would still be there.. But when I saw her that changed really quick.. Felt like I was in High School again and going out on a first date like in times of old..
We drove to the concert, talked the entire time, and to say the least, it was more than I even expected.. I would walk off and sit down, and she would come over and sit with me from time to time.. Other times she would stay with her family and friends and I would be talking to my friends..
When the concert ended I was asked to take her home, and I gladly excepted.. We talked even more on the way home, and decided to get some beer and go back to her house and hang out for the evening..
We ended up walking into her room mate throwing a party.. At this point I felt uncomfortable, I felt like the old fart of the bunch.. I played bartender and made some mixed drinks for some of the people there, and she went and got changed.. Nothing exciting, just a T shirt and Blue Jeans.. I then went and sat on the couch and started talking to some of the people there.. The next thing I know she is sitting next to me.. The rest of the night I started noticing that when I would get up to have a cigarette, she would be there, move to a different place to sit, she would be there..
Now, I am blonde and out of experience with seeing the signs.. But is the attraction mutual? or is she just being nice and tring to not make me feel left out?
Thanks for any advice given..
Mr. C