Question for the guys...

[smilesintx]

Okay...say you met a girl about 3 months ago, and have only seen her couple of times and talked online a few times since. How would she be able to tell if you were interested in her? Without actually TELLING her...how would you act around her and what kind of things would you say to her? Please help! I don't know if this guy likes me, or if he's just being nice! Thanks!

[EOS30]

When i'm around a girl i really like normally i'd do the following:

1. Glance at her few times

2. The first to say "hi" BUT only if i know her for a while...not just to any girl i meet on buses/train/street

3. If she responds to my "hi" i'd ask simple things related to her e.g. "how was your weekend?" or "how are you today" but i'll always keep the conversation short...no longer than 3 mins

4. Give her a decent compliment like "you've got nice hairstyle today" or "you look very fresh and cheerful today" but NOT "Baby, you look really really hot!!"

5. Give full attention when talking to her i.e. i wouldnt turn my head around if someone's walk pass behind me or if there's a strange noise behind me (unless it's a sound of machine gun firing so i can dive & take cover hehehe)

Those are some of my reactions...other people may react differently though.

[PerletPhp]

Originally posted by EOS30
When i'm around a girl i really like normally i'd do the following:

1. Glance at her few times

2. The first to say "hi" BUT only if i know her for a while...not just to any girl i meet on buses/train/street

3. If she responds to my "hi" i'd ask simple things related to her e.g. "how was your weekend?" or "how are you today" but i'll always keep the conversation short...no longer than 3 mins

4. Give her a decent compliment like "you've got nice hairstyle today" or "you look very fresh and cheerful today" but NOT "Baby, you look really really hot!!"

5. Give full attention when talking to her i.e. i wouldnt turn my head around if someone's walk pass behind me or if there's a strange noise behind me (unless it's a sound of machine gun firing so i can dive & take cover hehehe)

Those are some of my reactions...other people may react differently though.


ya everything that eos30 said plus when i am talking to a girl i try to make her laugh, and stare into her eyes.

[smilesintx]

Thanks guys!...Any more "hints" that a guy will drop when he likes you?!

[Zero]

mm, any kind of physical contact. I don't mean like feeling you up.. I mean things such as touching your hand. If done right, its a great way to show feelings, but if its overdone, or if the two aren't on the same page, its kinda unwanted, to say the least ;-)

Also look for courtesy things, offering help, holding doors, etc. Just what comes to mind at the moment (2 am hehe)

[reign226]

if you don't know a person well, s/he is generally unreceptive to your moves unless its really obvious (the definition of obvious lies with the other person, not you. Always remember that!)

Some people can be real blockheads unless you hit them on the mental head with The Talk (or Confession, whatever floats your boat). They tend to be the unsure types. If you're working with a pro, s/he will immediately pick up on all those signs. Then again, do you want to work with a pro?

Sorry if this post isn't helping. I'm pretty much brain dead at the moment.