View Full Version : Guilty of Faking it???
Nice Girl
08-15-2002, 04:22 PM
Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Did you feel guilty afterwards?
ticklesuzy
08-15-2002, 08:00 PM
Well I've spent a good part of my adult life convincing myself that I was given the wonderful ability of mult. orgasims instead of long legs. tee hee!!!
Having said that there have been a few times where I faked it. No, I didn't feel guilty about it. I have always been satisfied in our sexual relationship, but there have been a few times where I just couldn't reach climax but it wasn't because he was less in anyway, I wouldn't hurt his feelings for anything. It wasn't really him--It only happens when I am really too preoccupied, and probably should have waited til I was more "in the mood". Normally, we can communicate and it doesn't happen--but frankly sometimes your not in the mood--and he really is.
I guess it really depends on the reasons you're faking....if it is because he is not satisfing your needs then you need to talk to him and let him in on your needs. He may feel lied to if you don't now and keep faking it. And your missing the potential exploration of making it more satisfing for both of you.
insecurity
08-16-2002, 02:10 AM
I have faked a couple of times. The only weird part being that I am a guy. But sometimes you just wanna get out of a sticky situation...............fast.
Besides that I have also faked not cumming ,when I actually did, so as to prolong the intense sexually extascy that I was feeling at the time (it was a few years ago when an exgirlfriend & myself tried anal for the first time & I came as I was inserting).I was young & VERY excited. But I didn't let up & continued until I came a second time. Aaahhh sweet memories............;)
ticklesuzy
08-16-2002, 11:35 PM
A sticky situation??? that's curious! sounds like a post to me!!
Ohhhhhhhh Yesssssssssss Yesssssssss yesssssssssss
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh Mmmmmmmmmmmy Gawddddddddddd Yesssssssssssss ( lmao )
Nice Girl
08-20-2002, 08:24 AM
Yeah Meg, do I have to send someone at your house to see if you are really faking it?
Sounds pretty real!
( laughing ) Make him 6' or taller, dreamy eyes, a nice firm...
butt...( laughs) Got the address? Meg
ticklesuzy
08-20-2002, 11:17 PM
(laying on the floor rolling with laughter!)
toooooo tooooo hilarious!!:devil:
Nice Girl
08-21-2002, 08:23 AM
Don't need the address! He can hear you from all the way up here!
ticklesuzy
08-21-2002, 06:14 PM
(woman to waitress) "I want what she's havin'!"
CarinaZorra7426
08-22-2002, 02:10 PM
When Harry Met Sally!! The best movie ever, if only I could meet a guy like that (and of course the awesome job and the great apartment and live somewhere cool). I sound whiny don't I?
sorry!
ticklesuzy
08-22-2002, 10:57 PM
Anything Meg Ryan is in is great! That's funny I thought of the commercial that they patterned from the movie but not the movie?!? oh well !
ahhh good choice, ticklesuzy! It's ummm very orgasmic!
( laughing) Meg
Thenoisefrom551
08-27-2002, 11:50 PM
I have a question for all of the "Sally's" out there -- why?
I know why guys "fake it," but when a women pretends something makes her feel good that doesn't, she is just setting herself up to get more of the same...
You are training your partner to give you bad sex... it is kind of like giving your dog treats when they soil the carpet... you are going to get more stains and eventually need to get rid of the dog or the carpet.
...and just to answer the questions - yes and yes.
TNF551
:cool:
This is something I have done on rare occassions. For me, I faked it because, I was getting tired and didn't really know what having an orgasm was about. Of course with age and maturity comes the knowledge of ones body and the ability to communicate. No need to fake now, because if he can't do it, I can tell him how -- laughs Meg
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