**men**

[hopeless1]

What do men think about when haveing sex I always wanted to know that!!!

[voland]

Now that's a good question. I'm more interested in what you ladies think about, but here's an sampling of what has gone through my mind...

Keep in mind, I don't think about all of this all the time...

Sometimes I...

Compare her to my past lovers.
Pretend that I control her totally.
Just admire her body.
Think thoughts that I wouldn't describe here, or anywhere...
Critique her performance (but not harshly, everything gets better with time).
Sometimes nothing is going on in my mind.

A number of things goes through my head. And like I said, sometimes nothing at all. It all depends... a lot of fleeting thoughts, too many to keep track of.

[meg]

We need more replies from men on this topic.

You think about ex's, Voland????

I don't want a guy thinking about someone else when he is with me! Is this common? Meg

[Jaxon]

Hmmm, let's just see now, it's been a good week since sex ran into my equation, I’m pretty sure I can remember. Here it goes…..

For me, it is so different, depending on the sex you are having, and Voland's pretty acurate about lots flying through your mind with circumstances pertaining.

Lovemaking: My body definitely takes the lead here. I’m just trying to get as close as I can to her, reacting to the sounds, smells and touches around us. Listening to the candles burning, hearing the music play, feeling our passion work, and smelling my lover’s body. I get so engulfed in the moment, I feel her very heartbeat, her every touch, her every movement and her every desire. I listen to her body, and picture how she’s sliding, moving and grooving, what she looks like and what she wants. I guess it’s like watching a video in my mind. Nothing’s planed or scripted, just two hearts, bodies connected for a brief moment reacting and feeding off of each other. Pretty amazing, when you stop and think of it. I mean, nothing else really matters or even happens until the lovemaking is over.

Good ole fashion banging- Hate to say it, but at times, I can become a bit selfish here, not always mind you, but there are moments when it’s all about me. Things get a little bit scripted here, not always, but sometimes. If I want to see my girls ass shake then were dogging her all the way home. Maybe Jill or Suzy are on my mind. Here’s where mind fantasies also come into play. Whether I’m thinking about that cute cowgirl next door in those tan chaps wearing nothing but my hat or just thinking about banging on the beach or underneath the stars by the campfire (actually, that’s a pretty good lovemaking spot), sometimes the mind does wonder. My mind can get me just as excited as my girl. The sex is definitely fast and usually rougher, harder and sometimes even hotter. I am definitely thinking about cuming and what feels good. I suppose with banging, I’m always thinking of some kinky oral nipping, like pulling a skirt up and taking a lick from behind while her hands are up against the wall, I guess this falls into the scripted/mind/ fantasies again.

Actually come to think of it, did I even answer the question?

Jaxon

[Teebird]

I'd have to agree with both fellas here. I tend to have similar thoughts when making love. I also feel a wonderful connection with my gal's mind and believe I can react to her every move and counter with my own to make HER feel gratified as well as myself. I find that the more turned on she is by my actions, the more turned on I get as things continue to escalate to a climax. So, my thoughts tend to run in the direction that I am creating a "thrill-ride" that we both really enjoy.

[DigarD]

Generally my thoughts are on the experience itself. How my lover is responsing to my attentions. Is she enjoying it or should I try something else. I am becoming too aroused too quickly? I enjoy her body and her attentions. There is plenty of time to think about Britney Spears afterwards.

[hopeless1]

LOL

[argon]

Jaxon, I want you. :devil:
lol