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KyleK
07-26-2002, 03:58 PM
Going to have to keep this to a minimum.

I am a 17 year old male. Never had a date in my life, never really liked a girl either (I mean lots were hot, but none really stood out).

That is until our store hired some new people. One of them was a nice looking cashier, who is really nice. For the past few weeks, I was debating wether or not to ask her out. My friends basically said, go for it, you have nothing to lose.

That is, until the event last Monday, where the cashier's friend invited me to go to the restaurant with them after work. I said sure. So while I was waiting at the door, waiting for the cashier to cash out, her friend said we have to change into sexy clothes, since he is already wearing sexy clothes (Not much, just black jeans, and agolf shirt)

So we went to the restaurant, and she sat across from me. I was basically being my usual self. Kind of quiet until I start to know the people better, and their kind of personalities.

So, once the bill was given, I was basically expecting the night to be over, and for me to head home, at least I knew that this girl was signal, and we had a few things in common. Except, as we were walking out, her friend once again insisted I go to the beach with them. Of course, this girl was going, so I thought it would be best to go, to learn a few more things.

The original plan, was that they were going to "oogle" hot guys, but this never happened. Instead, her, her friend and I, spent the whole time talking.

We walked on the beach for about 45 minutes, and than sadly, I knew it was time to go home. Now on the ride there, I sat in the back. Except this time, her friend offered to sit in the back seat (The girl I like, was driving). I said it doesn't matter to me, and she said she didn't mind. So I sat in the front.

We talked a lot more, and several personal questions were asked. Who was my first kiss (None, never been with someone), than they started discussing sex, and how many times they have done it. Than the girl I liked, wanted to know some juicy information. Well that just sucked. Simply put, I had none to say. Sure I have friends, but they work too much to go anywhere.

So she asked for juicy information about the people in the lumber yard (Where I work), I gave names, and a few points of each person. When I was finished, she laughed and said thats all, "You know?!" "I know tonnes about the people that work inside." I said true, but I also pointed out, that I usually do the closing shift, where it is just me.

So as we got to her friends place (we all met there), she said your not getting out of the car until I get some juicy information from you. I laughed, and said I have none, I guess I'm just a boring person, and laughed a bit more.

So I drove home, thinking that I blew it. I talked to a female friend, that is in an online car club that I am in. She basically said, you probably didn't blow it, as you havent had enough life experiences to tell a story anyway. She shouldn't like you just because of that.

So I thought about it more, and decided that on Wednesday, would go in at around 7pm, and ask if she wanted to go to the beach after her shift was over.

Now without going over that part, I was chatting with my friend, and saved the log. Its a farely long, but it contains what she said, her reaction, and also more events from Monday night.

The log is here:
members.shaw.ca/kkijowski/Chat.html

So after reading the log what do you guys/girls think??

KyleK
07-26-2002, 04:03 PM
When she gave me her answer, on Wednesday. She seemed really disappointed, like she wanted to, but she had plans. Its do darn tough to try and figure out if it meant, I'm interested, but busy, or it was a nice way to say screw you!

The other dilemma that I am in, is I am leaving this Sunday, to go out of town for two weeks.

Im planning to ask her on Saturday, if she would go out with me again. This way, the answer will be either yes or no, and no guessing will be required, as it will be clear.

If she says yes, I'll get her phone number, and maybe call her Sunday, a few hours before I leave, and see if she wants to go to the beach Aug 12 (Which is my first day back at work, and she is there closing with me).

This a good idea?

KyleK
07-27-2002, 01:24 AM
I talked to her firned today. She is gonna talk with her, and see whats up.

I also told her I was kind of confused the, wondering outloud wether or not Im single or half single.

Basically, her and her boyfriend are "taking a break".

Hmmmm so what does this mean?!

MyMatt2003
07-27-2002, 05:16 AM
Well..

I'm not sure exactly what to say to you.. but give this all some time.. I personally think you should wait a few days after you get back from vacation to see if she is still intrested.. #2 get her number even though you are not going to ask her anywhere.. it's always good to have, to chat with her, get to know her more.. but DO NOT rush things.. because if you jump the gun, especially if she still has a b/f.. you my friend are screwed..#3 do what you have been doing and be yourself.. a original is worth more then a copy :) if she can't except you, then she ain't for you.. I don't want to discourage you or anything, but I have a strange feeling that she isn't all what she seems.. The way you explain her, she seems like the player type.. Especially if she talking to you the way she is... It seems 'fishy'.. I would watch her and get to her know her really well before you move any further ( its just my opinion) Well.. Good Luck and I wish you all the best..
and tell me what happeneds ;)

KyleK
07-27-2002, 09:43 PM
Well Matt, you are probably right about her sounding like a "player".

I just got home a few minutes ago from work, and added the following line to my MSN name:

"So I say, "Screw it!"

Yep, I was in the lunchroom, and her and her friend came in. Nothing was said to me.

Than they started talking about homosexuals.

Well, the discussion was, I dont care if people think about being gay, but when they speak about being gay, and kissing another man, it just doesnt nothing for me, and it is gross.

But yet, a few seconds later, she said she wanted to get home early, because there was this party, where Sean would be going to. She wanted to try and "convert" him over, and as she put it to her friend, "I'm going to have to look really good in order for it to be even considered."

Passionwithin
07-28-2002, 12:38 AM
she sounds like a player, tease her at work... like when shes grabbing something slip it away slowly and see her reaction or something best bet. I wouldn't date her though

KyleK
07-28-2002, 12:44 AM
A player looking for attention, nothing serious, is what a coworker said.

And after rereading everything again, I have nothing to say, than that he is right.

Heh, time to move on. :cool: