Does he like me......

[lalala]

Ok heres my story......
I'm totally in love with a younger guy. Hes 18.....and a Senior in HS and I'm 21. We've been very close friends for the past 3 years. And I've just noticed over these past few months that I want more than a friendship. Well we Flirt all the Time......in person...on the phone....and the computer.....whatever. And when I flirt I make sure I touch him in some way or another. And he doesnt seem to mind. He flirts right back. He even joked about having sex when he came to visit me one day. Was he just being funny or was that his way of coming on to me? So how could I Seduce him.....or just find out if he likes me or not??

[Mysinluz]

:devil: Maybe you should just come out and ask. You have been good friends for a long time now and you should be willing to take the risk. Or you could bring up sex yourself in a joking way, as far as he knows anyway! Ask him then if he has ever wanted sex with you.

Or Just go for it. Make sure you guys are where you would feel comfortable and make a move. Maybe after the two of you are doing the flirt stuff , you could actually throw in lets say a kiss and see how he responds! Might find yourself surprised. You'll never know unless you either ask or make a move.

[MyMatt2003]

You are never not going to get anywhere if you don't do anything.. I do believe this guy is attracted too you. You could do 2 things. You could have a conversation and see what happeneds or ask him to go out with you, personally I would choose the conversation first and save the date for after or you can do the other way around and see what happeneds and like the previous poster said, if the time is right and you feel that strange feeling in your heart.. you can go for the kiss ;)

[Miss DoLLy]

Go for him, hon!!!

[jomi]

LaLaLa,
Oh my Goodness!!! I am in the exact same boat. Except I am 22 and he is 19. I have known him for about a year. I want to tell him but I don't know how. This past weekend we were at a house party and it was getting kind of late so was getting kind of tired so I went into the bedroom to lay down for a little while. And he came in behind me and shut the door, and sat down in chair in front of the bed and just talked to me. He seemed a little nervous it was so cute. I wanted him to say something about it, but he didn't and I wanted to say something but I couldn't get up the nerve :bawling: so any suggestions I can get too..would be much appreciated. LaLaLa hang in there girl :)

[lalala]

Ok....I've never written a poem before.....So dont laugh. I couldnt think of a way to tell him how I feel....So I wrote it down.

I've always wanted more from you
More than you were willing to give
Now we're each goin our separate ways
Each with our own life to live

We probably wont stay friends
You'll go on your own little way
We'll probably never speak again
And you'll never look back on this day

You're gonna go off to college
And you'll move so far away
Then I'll never see you again
So thats why I'm telling you this today

I love you so much
More than you'll ever know
I love you more than anyone
And I just had to let you know

I've held this in too long
And I'm defiantly not telling a lie
But now that I've told you all of this
Its time for me to say goodbye

Goodbye for now
Things between us may seem strange
So all I'm asking of you
Is that we can stay the same


Well what do ya think....is it weird??

[Zero]

Not at all! That's pretty good writing you have there...

The only thing is, will he take the idea of poetry well? A lot of us don't really go for that, but as you said you've been close for 3 years, you would know by now! Good luck!

[Velvet G]

The signs are there. He may be waiting for you to initiate things as you are older. At 18, I was pretty stupid and couldn't read signs if they were on a map. Thank God I'm older now.

It sounds like he is genuinely interested in you, so why not invite him up if that's what you really want?