Help PLEASE!

[Confuseded]

Help me please. My boyfriend wants a lap dance next time we see each other...Next weekend. I don't even have the slightest idea of how to give one!? Please help me!!!:confused:

[Pandora1980]

If you feel comfortable giving him one, get some of your guy friends to go to a strip club and watch how she does it. I went to a strip club with some guy friends once and the women's bathroom was in their dressing room, so some of the strippers came in and they're pretty friendly so I don't think they'd mind if you explained it to them and asked what they think you should do.
If you and your friends are over 21, I don't think you'd be hard up to find a friend to go with you (assuming you have guy friends). If you can't do that, I guess you could call one of those 900 numbers and ask the chick. She'd know what guys like to hear/imagine. Or you could always find some chick who likes to hae cyber sex and pretend you're a guy and ask her what she'd do to you if she were giving you a lap dance.
My boyfriend asked me for that and he used to work as a manager at a strip joint so I knew that I could NEVER live up to what he'd already seen. Hopefully you're not in the sam boat and you'd probably be good just slowly taking your clothes off while stradling him in a chair.

[hopeless1]

go to a strip club and get idas....thats if you want too

[Nice Girl]

When all else fail, rent the video.

[hopeless1]

HaHa yea!!!!

[Nice Girl]

I gave my ex-boyfriend lap dances a couple of times and I enjoyed them twice as much as he did.

I can tell you this much....... I set the mood, dress sexy, let him sit in a comfortable chair blind-folded at first and his hand tied with nylons (pantyhose). I did get what was coming to me...... long nights and late mornings.

[hopeless1]

lmfao.yup thats how it's done!

[Miss DoLLy]

just TELL him you dont know how to do it and have him help you through it. you really think he'll actually care?? he'll love anything you do..... he's a GUY for God's sake!