she didn't call at all....

[Joseph JAy]

I broke up with ma g/f about 4 and a half months ago and juss recently she asked me if i wanted to chill like the "old days" u kno...and last sunday i told her that if she wanted to chill to call me wednsday and pick sumwhere to chill b/c i wanted to chill too and she said yea sure....ok su wednsday comes and she doesn/'t call....ok i thought maybe she was busy or had an emergency or watever.....i didn't stress it and still i am not...but i wonder its been two days and not a peep or a ring of this girl.....i kno i didn't do anything wrong...well except i told her if she really wanted to chill to set it all up u kno like pick a place to chill and a time b/c i was gonna be home all day....its friday now and she still hasn't called at all.....but wat u gonna do.....wat u think this was about?
i'm a lil lost.....

[sugarbabe]

Well since she was the one who brought up the idea of hanging out with you, I have a feeling that she was definitely interested. I think that maybe she had second thoughts about spending time with you, possibly due to nervousness or simply because there might be some awkwardness due to having once been in a relationship. I don't think you should take this personally at all since she's the one who wanted to hang out with you. I think she's just a little unsure right now.

[CarinaZorra7426]

I, (being a chick and all) can't help but wonder if she's not playing a mind game. Maybe I need to stop looking at the glass as half-empty and all that, but it just kinda strikes me a little strange that she calls you up after 4.5 mos and asks you to "hang out". No offense sweetheart, but I'm thinking she was testing a theory out - "can you ALWAYS get laid by an ex?" 9x outta 10 the answer is YES!!!

[Stephanie]

I agree with Carina. I think she wants to she if she still has your attention. I'm not saying you shouldnt be friends with her I'm just saying be careful.

[Passionwithin]

Here's what you do

think hard of a excuse to call her, now call her and say your excuse to her and gradually ask her why she never called. You can do this anyway you want don't acuse of of anything though she may of forgot etc ... happens. ask her if she'd love to go for icecream (never seen a girl say no to ice cream lol) anyways after that ask her if she wants to go for a date or somethin after that :)