Inexperienced and in need of encouragement!

[sugarbabe]

A guy friend and I have been hanging out more lately, and have been talking quite a bit. Well last night we were hanging out and he said something about how I attract a ton of guys...and then he named like 6 guys and put himself at the end of them. I couldn't even say anything because I just didn't even know what to say-I mean I was totally frozen. Anyway we are supposed to hang out tomorrow night (just the two of us) which is going to be really different because all of the other times we have been alone haven't been planned.

I like this guy and I guess what I want to know is if you think it's possible that I might have misinterpreted what he said...but how many guy friends would include themselves in the list of guys that like me? I guess I'm just kinda scared because I like this guy and I just don't want to get my hopes up high that he likes me as more than a friend, because if he actually doesn't of course I'd feel really hurt. I just need some encouragement because I don't have much experience with this kind of thing!

[meg]

It sounds like there is an interest there, hun.
Hang out with him as a friend. If he wants more, he will make the advances. Meg

[steveall]

He is most definitely interested. He just was feeling you out to see what your reaction would be when he added his name. You might try doing the same thing to him and putting your name on the TOP of the list. This should give him the encouragement he needs. Good luck!

[reign226]

Well, the answer really depends on the PERSONALITY of the guy. If he is inherently playful and an all-round joker, I'd say he's just trying to inject an akward moment with a funny (to him?) comment to ease his own tensions.

That said, it sure takes a lot of courage to do what he did. But again, it depends on his personality. Since you probably know him best, you should form your own opinions or at least inform us about his personality, otherwise, it's hard for us to help. Oh and make sure that there is a distinct line between a classroom joker and when that person is alone. Sometimes, when alone, they transform into a different person alltogether. Man, that's a lot of variables to account for, no?

[angel143ml]

:angel6:

Yes, I would definately say that he is interested, however I agree with Meg, (let him make the moves), yet at the same time, let him subtley know your into him, but let him set the pace.

:nod:

:angel6:

[meg]

We need an update on this post!! lol Meg

[PerletPhp]

i agree, a good 'i know so i will tell u what happened' would be appreciated

=D

[sugarbabe]

Oh man this is an old post lol...but anyway I guess he just likes me as a good friend, because some people just aren't supposed to be together (that's what he told me)...no I didn't understand it either. Funny thing is I can tell he's attracted to me and he definitely makes an effort to spend time with me and all that. I think he's just pretty immature cause he liked this other girl at one point and he treated her same way he treated me...basically blowing it with both of us. Oh well, he will learn some day.

Meanwhile, I have my sights on another guy and I think he likes me too!!! :D I will post something on that if anything major happens. Thanks all.

[Zero]

Originally posted by sugarbabe
Meanwhile, I have my sights on another guy and I think he likes me too!!! :D I will post something on that if anything major happens. Thanks all.

Very nice :)

[Gan]

Originally posted by sugarbabe
...I think he's just pretty immature cause he liked this other girl at one point and he treated her same way he treated me...basically blowing it with both of us. Oh well, he will learn some day.

Yeah I hate that - some people can be so chicken... they're afraid of commitment.

-Gan