Somewhat of a crazy situation

[BlackDragonSoul]

This girl that I have recently befriended has grown on me quite a bit. She has said that she isn't interested in anything serious. So, I keep my cool. But everytime we hang out we end up kissing and stuff. Plus, she always gives me a kiss goodbye, and calls me gets home so I know she made it home okay.
Like tonight for instance. She called to me to tell me that she was coming over. We actually didn't go anywhere this time, we just chilled at my place. There was a lightning storm, so we went outside to watch it. It began to rain a little, and our lips once again met. And oh it was a passionate kiss indeed, as they always are. Yet, it seems more so this time. Has she changed her mind? I want to ask her, but I don't now how to without sounding like a broken record. I'm rather content, and confused at the same time. ::sighs:::bouncy3:

[katty]

Hi there BlackDragonSoul,

You know, i think she likes you!! It is woman's sixth sense.

I think she says she isn't interest whatsoever, probably she isn't ready for a relationship and get committed with it.

I think you could ask her really nicely if both of you could get together and develop further. But do respect her decision. I just think that she really likes you, but just isn't ready to get into a relationship. All the best!

[Dark Angel291]

Hey I gotta agree with Katty on this one I think that she likes you. You should ask her if she c's anything more then friendship in your guys's future. c what she says and go from there. Best of luck to ya!! :rainbow:

[crystal]

Yeah! I think you guys are right. The girl's interested with you, Dark Angel291! ;)

Gotta ask her what she feels about you. You both are kissing so passionately and i am sure both of you mean something more to each other isn't it? :D

When you guys are gonna lock lips again... grab this opportunity to ask her.

Goodie luck.

[BlackDragonSoul]

I know in my heart she values our friendship, but this is killing me. I mean she's really an awesome person, intelligent, as well as intoxicating. We see eye to eye on a lot of things. I can sense her hesitation, yet we do tell each other, "I love you," as friends from time to time. I think I'll just continue to keep my cool, and see what happens. What do you folks think?

[Haze]

Hello BlackDragonSoul,

I think the girl could be waiting for you and waiting for the right time.

Since you both have been telling each other "i love you", and are still friends, i think it is HIGH time you do something. If this friendship still carries on, perhaps you could lose her to someone else.

I believe both of you love each other, but i am thinking,
what is holding you back from asking her, and what is holding her back from accepting you?? :confused:

[BlackDragonSoul]

That's what I've been wondering about her. What is holding her back from accepting me? I don't know. Maybe she's scared of the change? Does she feel I might tie her down? I have already expressed my feelings toward her. She wasn't interested in that aspect, so I backed off. Ever since I did that, she calls me more. She wants to hang out with me more, even if we haven't made plans to. Maybe she's finally accepting me, or so it seems. Then again, she might just want to have a good time. And it just so happens that I'm the person she wants to have a good time with, for now. Who knows? I sure as hell don't.:confused:

[maverick]

have to agree with katty and the rest... the girl likes u pal... so just keep ur cool... thats the odd way of girls testing the guys sincerity and the other stuff... as they say just go with the flow. :p

[Tyler]

She is definately interested in you.

[GeminiTau]

Okay, call me the devils advocate, because that is what I am going to be.

You need to be true to yourself. How much do you care for this girl?? You have to set your boundaries and not get yourself hurt. I know that sounds selfish, but she is not being fair to you in the sense that she knows how you feel about her, but do you know how she feels about you? Even though her actions express that she is interested, she still has not verbally expressed that she wants a relationship with you. Her verbal communication is saying that she wants to be friends, but her physical is showing something else. If she is a true friend she will not want to hurt you. You have to make her understand that what she is doing is not only confusing you, but also hurting you.

Bottom line is if she just wants a friendship then keep it as a friendship, if she wants more then take it one step at a time. She might be scared of being hurt especially if she feels very close to you. You have to let her know that you are not going to hurt her....I guess the best advice I can give is to talk to her. Ask her why she does not want a relationship with you??? Then go from there. Take it one step at a time. Be fair to yourself and know your boundaries.

Whew that was a long one:bouncy: Good Luck. :)