LuvMe11
07-01-2002, 12:23 AM
Hey everyone, I thought you might be able to offer me some advice. I like this guy I work with (and I know work place relationships are bad, but we do completely seperate jobs) and I am not sure that he likes me back. He sends me so many complicated signals and its a bit annoying. :mad: So here is what has happened and I would like to know what everyone thinks...
Okay so I started liking him before we started hanging out. One night he gave me his number but I didn't call it until like three days later because I was chicken. But since then not a day has gone by that we don't talk to each other on the phone. He tells me stuff about his parents, and his past but yet he is completely goofy like he normally is. We make sexual suggestions to each other, (ex. I got a new car and he suggested that we break in the back seat, etc) but whenever I tell him lets go for it he says I'm just talking. He hardly talks to me when we are at work, he always touches the other girls but not me. However when we are alone he always squeezes my arm (in a goofy way) and then gives me a hug. I have given him two back massages, and suggested every thing possible. He makes weird eyes at me when people aren't looking, and it seems like he is happy when I am around. But it bothers him when people ask if I am his gf. He said on one occation that he owes me dinner for helping him at work, but always has an excuse not to go. His ex-gf broke his heart pretty bad, and I feel that will always hold him back. Plus I am 19 and he is 26. Can anyone help me??? :confused:
Okay so I started liking him before we started hanging out. One night he gave me his number but I didn't call it until like three days later because I was chicken. But since then not a day has gone by that we don't talk to each other on the phone. He tells me stuff about his parents, and his past but yet he is completely goofy like he normally is. We make sexual suggestions to each other, (ex. I got a new car and he suggested that we break in the back seat, etc) but whenever I tell him lets go for it he says I'm just talking. He hardly talks to me when we are at work, he always touches the other girls but not me. However when we are alone he always squeezes my arm (in a goofy way) and then gives me a hug. I have given him two back massages, and suggested every thing possible. He makes weird eyes at me when people aren't looking, and it seems like he is happy when I am around. But it bothers him when people ask if I am his gf. He said on one occation that he owes me dinner for helping him at work, but always has an excuse not to go. His ex-gf broke his heart pretty bad, and I feel that will always hold him back. Plus I am 19 and he is 26. Can anyone help me??? :confused: