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SPZCHLD
06-25-2002, 11:12 PM
HI MY NAME IS MANDA AND I HAVE A TON OF PROBLEMS AND I NEED HELP FROM SOMEONE. I LIKE THESE FOUR GUYS NAMES : GABE ((EX BOYFRIEND)) SHYAN ((GUY WHO I THINK IS USING ME FOR SEX)) PAUL ((GUY IV HAD A CRUSH ON FOR A FEW YEATS)) STEVEN ((EX BOYFRIEND WHO I HAVE BEEN HEAD OVR HEALS ABOUT FOR THE PAST 6 MONTHS))
WELL ANYWAYS ME AND GABE BROKE UP ON FRIDAY NIGHT BECAUSE HE DIDNT TRUST ME AT ALL BUT ME AND HIM ARE STILL BESTFRIENDS AND EVER SINSE ME AND HIM BROKE UP I HAVE BEEN TALKING TO SHYAN FOR ABOUT A WEEK NOW AND HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME AND CARP BUT ALL HE DOES IS TALK ABOUT SEX WITH ME I DONT THINK HE HAS TALKED ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE WITH ME AND ME AND HIM GO INTO A FIGHT ABOUT IT TODAY. AND HE YELLED AT ME WHO CAN I LOVE HIM IN ONLY A WEEK N I TOLD HIM HES THE ONE WHO STARTED TO SAY I LOVE YOU TO ME FIRST AND HE SAID THAT HE DOES LOVE ME AND I ASKED HIM TO PLEASE NOT TO LIE TO ME AND HE SAID OKAY THAN HE LIKES ME A LOT. AND THAN LATER TONIGHT HE IMED ME SAYING "HI IM HORNY" AND IT JUST PISSED ME OFF ALL THE OTHER TIMES I WAS JUST LETTING HIM PUSH ME AROUND LIKE I WAS A SLUT OR SOMETHING BUT THIS TIME I WENT OFF ON HIM AND IT FELT REALLY GOOD BUT NOW IM SCARD HES MAD AT ME. PAUL IS SHYANS BEST FRIEND AND I TOLD PAUL LAST NIGHT THAT I STILL LIKED HIM ((HE USE TO LIKE ME A LOT)) AND HE TOLD ME THAT HE DOESNT KNOW ME WEEL ENOUGH ANYMORE TO KNOW IF HE LIKES ME AND IT WOULDNT BE COOL TO DO TO SHYAN IF HE DID LIKE ME. IV ASKED HIM BEFORE IF HE KNOWS IF SHYAN IS JUST USING ME AND HE SAID HE DIDNT KNOW AND I TRUST PAUL THAT HE WOULD NEVER LIE TO ME. AND STEVEN I JUSGT DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT. ME AND HIM ONLY WENT OUT FOR 2WEEKS AND I TOTALTY LOVED HIM THAN HE BROKE UP WITH ME BECAUSE HE DIDNT WANNA GIRLFRIEND AND THAN A MONTH LATER HE WAS GOING OUT WITH MY BESTFRIEND. THIS WAS IN DECEMBER OR SOMETHING IM NOT SURE BUT I STILL THINK ABOUT HIM. PLEASE HELP ME WHAT SHOULD I DO
THANK YOU!

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Karbonopsinos
06-25-2002, 11:28 PM
1.) If you post just one or two posts of the same or similar nature on the boards, you'll get more answers to the post and they will be more coherent, since they will include your information and impressions from previous responses.

2.) If you post too many identical posts, it gets a bit annoying.

3.) Your problem is serious (as serious as triviality) but does not require shouting. Shouting implies your problem is greater than other problems here (possibly, not necessarily) and also makes it difficult to read. Please use proper punctuation, or just write all in lower case.

shyguy13
06-29-2002, 06:24 AM
It seems to me that this Shyan guy is the type that gives the "men-are-all-pigs" idea some substance. My guess would be that yes he is trying to use you for sex; and that he's about a minute away from saying, "If you REALLY loved/liked me, you would have sex with me."