Nice Girl
06-24-2002, 04:33 PM
I took a caribbean vacation three months ago and ran into an old boyfriend. We knew each other since we were 3 years old and tried to have a relationship when I was sixteen but I graduation high school early and went away to college.
We tried to communicate via letters etc but it never lasted as my parents would not allow it. When I saw him for the first time in ten years, my heart skipped a beat and I felt the way I did ten years ago. He is currently in a troubled relationship (where his girlfriend is torn between her child's father and him). The problem is......he want us to give things a try but I am only holding back because I do not want to be the reason why he separates from his girlfriend.
As a teenager he never forced me to do anything. He respected the fact that my education was important.
Throughout my vacation we spend almost everyday together and I loved it. But I don't understand why I am feeling guilty. It is as if I am preventing him from working on his relationship.
What do I do?
We tried to communicate via letters etc but it never lasted as my parents would not allow it. When I saw him for the first time in ten years, my heart skipped a beat and I felt the way I did ten years ago. He is currently in a troubled relationship (where his girlfriend is torn between her child's father and him). The problem is......he want us to give things a try but I am only holding back because I do not want to be the reason why he separates from his girlfriend.
As a teenager he never forced me to do anything. He respected the fact that my education was important.
Throughout my vacation we spend almost everyday together and I loved it. But I don't understand why I am feeling guilty. It is as if I am preventing him from working on his relationship.
What do I do?