Has my best friend crossed the line??

[Ms Dynamite]

About 2 years ago, I met my best friend. We became close regardless of the fact that we are almost complete opposites (I am shy and rather quiet. She is more outgoing and somewhat crazy) Anyway, she was evicted from where she was living, so I offered to put her up for a while-till she got herself sorted and whatnot. She eventually stayed at mine for like 8 months and as time went on, I noticed that there may have been something sexual going on between her and my younger brother(I live with my parents). One night, the 3 of us were in my room (My friend, my brother and I) and I drifted off to sleep. About two hours later, I awoke to find her having sex with my little brother on my bedroom floor. I didn't say anything to either of them, but I do know that I immediately felt disrespected and upset by it. Two months later she tells me their 'in love' and that she might be pregnant. That was 4 months ago now. Luckily she wasn't pregnant and since then, she's found herself a new place and she and my brother have broken up. The problem is, whenever she and my brother are around each other they disappear together (to have sex) and I have a problem with my so-called best friend being a sex slave to my little brother. As a result, we have drifted apart as friends because instead of seeing her as a friend, I see her as the girl who ed my little bro on my bedroom floor. Am I wrong to feel this way? Help!:confused:

[Karbonopsinos]

That's pretty disrespectful. Yes, I would say she is not a genuine friend. A genuine friend respects you and part of that respect includes respect for your relatives. Its OK that a friend falls in love with a brother or a sister, but screwing on the floor while you're asleep or using your loved ones as sex toys/messing with their minds, is a sign of total disrespect for your. This girl is not a friend.

[mmj]

Friendships change.

She was a good friend before, but now things have changed and she's no longer a friend. Things like this happen and there's no need to be awkward about it. If you don't want to see her anymore, that's your own choice and that's perfectly reasonable.

By the way, I do not think she is wrong for what she did to you or that she was not your friend to begin with. I believe that she may have been a good friend. Then she made a choice to get with your brother. She obviously di so knowing that it would affect your relationship with her. That choice she made has caused your friendship to drift away.

There's no need to be friends forever. Situations change and friendships change. It's entirely your choice whether you want to remain friends with somebody.