What Should Ido If I Really Love Somebody??? I Need Help...

[SEDUCTIVE]

I NEED THE HELP OF ANYBODY WHO THINKS THEY CAN HELP ME. SO HERE IT GOES . MY BOYFRIEND OF 6 MONTHS ,HE AND I BROKE UP ABOUT A MONTH AND A HALF AGO. WITHIN WEEKS A FIEND OF HIS HOOKED ME UP WITH ONE OF HIS FRIENDS . WELL IT TURNS OUT THAT THE GUY I GOT HOOKD UP WITH IS MY OLD BOYFRIEND'S FRIEND . I FOUND THIS OUT WAY TOO LATE . BUT IT GETS WORSE MY NEW BOYFRIEND TOLD ME THAT HE LOVED ME WITHIN 1WK OF US BEING TOGETHER . I STILL HAVE BIG, BIG FEELINGS FOR MY EX AND HE ASKED ME BACK .EVERYONE TELLS ME THAT I SHOULD LISTEN TO MY HEART AND NOW I HAVE 2 GUYS IN LOVE WITHME AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. HOW CAN I BREAK IT OFF WITH TEGUY IM WITH NOW AND TELL HIM THAT I GOTTA HAVE MY EX BACK BECAUSE I LOVE ONLY HIM? IM SO CONFUSED PLEASE PLEAE HELP .I'VE BEEN HEART BROKEN 1 TIME 2 MANY .MY EX EVEN TELLS HIM THAT HE CAN HAVE ME WHENEVER HE WANTSME AND ITS TRUE ... :confused::bawling:

[Aki Ross]

Hi Seductive.

Follow your heart and go with your feelings. If you feel that you love your ex only then tell the next guy. No point holding on to it. How about your ex? Is he still keen on patching up? As for the new guy, just tell him the truth about how you really feel.

Finally, don't use Caps Lock when writing, i had a hard time reading your post. Using all upper caps is considered as shouting in cyberspace....

ok, take care.

[chickey1882]

i don't know what to tell but i don't know that you should be carefull for all you know maybe he's jealous that your going out with one of his friends.... you can tell if he started to say he wanted you back when you started dating his friend cuz for all you know you could get back with him and after awhile he can do the same thing over again or maybe he won't if he really does care about you he would give you time and space to think it over and do what your heart and soul tells you but in my opinion if you do get back with him becarefull..... i say this because i had the samething happen to me and it wasn't easy but to make a long story short i was hurt again about a month after we got back together and i never want to go through that again....... all i have to say is becarefull and follow your heart :) :)

[Amythestqueen1]

:bawling: I understand what you're going through, but the only thing you can do is follow your heart. Ask yourself one question, who do I want to be with, and which one makes me happiest? Because if you still have feelings for your old flame, in the long run you are only gonna hurt yourself and your new guy.:bawling: :bawling: :bawling:

[xiaomoon]

well i dunno but i think your ex is taking you for granted by saying that <HE CAN HAVE YOU WHENEVER HE WANTS YOU>
i think you should think about who you love most.. your ex or your new boyfriend. You should consider and give your new boyfriend a chance too i think.. :D

[DNA]

I strongly agree with xiaomoon. :)

[Kaisharga]

I second (third?) that! "I can have you whenever I want you??" That, to me, says 'On my forehead is written "arrogant prick" '

--Kaisharga, who was always a bit too straightforward with that kind of thing

[Crash86sm]

I don't know.... first off... how can you love someone within a week of going out. I believe in love at first sight.... but that happens verry rarely. You're a teenager...... Whoever you like best go for.... but I'd think about it for a little bit. Here's a couple points to ponder

What will keep your old bf from breaking up with you sometime in the future if he thinks he can always get with you again?

and Two.... Why stay with the same person for long periods of time? Your a teen... your supposed to have fun, experiment...... staying with one person for a long time is keeping you from experiencing different things...


Hang in there

Steve

[LeBlueBoy]

I may not believe in true love at first sight, but I certainly believe in the power of a strong dopamine rush. Even if infatuation is nothing more than a neuro-chemical high, the ups and downs it can produce are pretty devistating.

As immature as infatuation is (basically using another person as a means to "get high") it hits most people with no rhyme or reason, and its an incredibly powerful beast. It feels the way that "being in love" should feel, and it can hurt pretty much the same way. I can't tell you not to let it cloud your judgement, because that's just the nature of infatuation, but I suggest you use some common sense before you start making any long term plans.

[Dreamer18]

I definetly think that your ex is taking advantage of you. He is mad because you were dating his friend and i personally think he is jealous of the entire situation. I know from my experience if my ex that i just broke it off with about 2 months ago would have dated any of my firends i would get the same way. However, i feel that you should put him out of your mind and move on. You are still young and have fun. But whatever you decide to do don't rush into things. Read mine it is called I need advice and help me. It was started by me dreamer18 so please respond and good luck:splat: