Brown Sugar
05-21-2002, 05:37 AM
I have a dilemma which is pretty much all my own doing.
Back in February I decided to give the Girl I liked a Valentines card. In which I wrote that if she ever broke up with her boyfriend we should go out sometime. I thought of it as a nice gesture and nothing more seeing as she and her B/F seemed to be getting on pretty well. A week later I saw her on my way to a lesson, smiled at her and kept on walking. No big deal, right? Later on I found out that she was actually about to ask me out and she thought I had just been plain rude and ignored her. I tried talking to her from then on but she wouldn't listen and would either walk away from her or give me the silent treatment. She also began flirting with other boys whenever she saw me. After about a month she got back with her B/F and I assumed there was no point in pursuing this girl anymore. (Even though I still wanted to).
A lot of the time she tries to make eye contact however and I sometimes I see her practically staring at me. I get the feeling that she's with her current B/F because of convenience. She's off to University this Summer and I feel that I need to tell her how I feel before she leaves. One of her friends has told me that it's best I keep away from her and keep my feelings to myself in order for her to carry on as normal. She says that I have sort of 'emotional hold' on her and that she has strong feelings for me. I personally don't see why I shouldn't tell her that I feel the same way and not telling her how I feel would hurt me a lot more in the long run. I will probably see her at the library in the coming weeks and we'll be in the same exam room for one of our exams, so Should I tell her or Not?
Back in February I decided to give the Girl I liked a Valentines card. In which I wrote that if she ever broke up with her boyfriend we should go out sometime. I thought of it as a nice gesture and nothing more seeing as she and her B/F seemed to be getting on pretty well. A week later I saw her on my way to a lesson, smiled at her and kept on walking. No big deal, right? Later on I found out that she was actually about to ask me out and she thought I had just been plain rude and ignored her. I tried talking to her from then on but she wouldn't listen and would either walk away from her or give me the silent treatment. She also began flirting with other boys whenever she saw me. After about a month she got back with her B/F and I assumed there was no point in pursuing this girl anymore. (Even though I still wanted to).
A lot of the time she tries to make eye contact however and I sometimes I see her practically staring at me. I get the feeling that she's with her current B/F because of convenience. She's off to University this Summer and I feel that I need to tell her how I feel before she leaves. One of her friends has told me that it's best I keep away from her and keep my feelings to myself in order for her to carry on as normal. She says that I have sort of 'emotional hold' on her and that she has strong feelings for me. I personally don't see why I shouldn't tell her that I feel the same way and not telling her how I feel would hurt me a lot more in the long run. I will probably see her at the library in the coming weeks and we'll be in the same exam room for one of our exams, so Should I tell her or Not?